Xaale+Child Protectives+somebody help me get in contact?

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  1. mongo460 Merlin's Housekeeper

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    Umm yeah so hopefully some of you know what she's been going through at an extreme degree in the past few weeks, if not, here's an update:

    She was grounded, her mother went into extreme I'm a psycho***** mode, and she was sent to her father's house...

    according to her as of 1 and a half hour, her mother had said (paraphrased), "Your father can't take of you...you're ****ed up, Brett is the only normal person in this family...I'm CALLING CPS because he can't take care of you."

    Facts about situation:
    It was confirmed that she was most definetley calling, time not specified

    -Her friends were with her when I left them, so she has support

    -Her brother had no idea was I was in tears

    Errr so yeah, any help would be appreciated, ummmm texting=fail, I haven't tried calling yet but my parents would flip if I did...I'm just really scared for her and I want her to be okay, and if I see her mother in my presence ever...Let's just say what I'd do isn't appropriate to say on a forum with some younger members.

    HEEELP
     
  2. The Graceful Assassin It's Just Like Christmas Morning

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    Oh my...God. If I were her, I'd get the **** out of there.
     
  3. mongo460 Merlin's Housekeeper

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    I don't really know what to do, all I know is that this is some really messed up stuff with some messed up antagonists against me.
     
  4. Shizzy Gummi Ship Junkie

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    Dude, I'm glad you're concered for her, as I am deeply, but it's best not to freak out. Her and I contact eachother rather frequently via cell phone, and The other Gentlemen (dun hate) and I talk to her via MSN as frequently as possible. It's not best to overload her with people trying to calm her down, which might remind her a bit too much of what she's been through. Thanks for being concered for her though, dude. I'm shure she'll be happy when I tell her fellow KHV-ers are concered for her safety.
     
  5. BlazBlue Calamity King's Apprentice

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    When you do let her know Fallout king is always here>> (She'll know what it means...kinda)
     
  6. mongo460 Merlin's Housekeeper

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    I have to deal with the problem of me having been physically there for her and not doing anything, and I won't idly sit by and watch this happen. I'm honestly not trying to calm her down, I decided that's the worst idea ever, but rather now, I want her to be safe, and you know, not dragged away by child protective services. I'm just worried because after discussing this, I made a promise to prevent this from happening.

    I'm extremely sorry if you feel that I'm offending your request, but I won't sit here and watch terrible things happen to the people that I care about
     
  7. Shizzy Gummi Ship Junkie

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    Fff wait are you Joe as in her IRL friend? If so that changes everything :v
     
  8. mongo460 Merlin's Housekeeper

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    yes I am, I'm sorry, I thought that was assumed, so I was puzzled as to the fact why I wouldn't talk to her that often. Umm yeah, I really don't know what to do basically, but she seemed to be pretty strong, so she'll hold up for a little while. I want to do something tonight, because if I don't see her tomorrow, everything I've been trying to do has failed, her mother has won her little "game"
     
  9. Shizzy Gummi Ship Junkie

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    Ah, yeah, I recognized your username and location and I knew you had an account. Just so you know I'm Riley, from Facebook :v

    But you're right, she is a strong person. It's extremely hypocritical for her mom to send her to therapy, when it's actually the mom who needs the therapy. She has this vision everyone is crazy, when it's he who is. I really hope there's something we can do to help her.
     
  10. mongo460 Merlin's Housekeeper

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    Yeah, I know who you are (totally creepy), but yeah, I feel like it's gone on long enough and this is the last straw. I really don't know what to do, it's like she's abusing the law, but in a bad way. Uggghhh, I'll try texting again, after that I guess we'll just have to sit and wait it all out.
     
  11. Shizzy Gummi Ship Junkie

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    I'm creepy? D:

    And I was texting her earlier and she said her phone was about to die, so that's probably she hasn't responded.
     
  12. mongo460 Merlin's Housekeeper

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    Damn. see, my phone was getting fixed...I feel like i could've been there to do something, but something still needs to be done, even subtly. I might have her brother's email, and he doesn't hate me too much.
     
  13. TheMagicalMisterMistoffelees Professional Crazy

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    Hey guys Xaale's having issues so instead of trying to help her ourselves why don't we go to people who live nowhere near us and post all of her personal problems on the internet

    Seriously, dude? I mean, it's probably best not to freak out in these situations (seeing as what has happened before), but you really could've handled this better. Go and help her, at least as much as you can; if anybody can help than she's got Advent's number and my number and there's the huge system that the Gentlemen set up in case this **** ever went down.

    Chill out.

    EDIT: Also don't email her brother that's a baaaaaad idea
     
  14. Advent 【DRAGON BALLSY】

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    This.

    Come on, guys. Joe, you could have contacted me personally in a PM or over MSN about this since I live like twenty minutes away. We don't need to be quoting all of her personal info all over the web when it'll accomplish little to nothing.
     
  15. Xaale Sylph of Hope

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    Lolhi guys.

    I was kicked out and sent to a friend and then CPS rescued me in school and now I'm back at my dad's. Gonna try and do it right this time.

    Ampex says hi.