Would you get mad at your girlfriend if...?

Your girlfriend actually seems quite mature, if she did have a fit, odds are the punishment would of increased. At least you get to talk to each other​

 

I wouldn't be mad because I'd understand that a father is going to be protective of his girl, because he knows what 'bad' boys are like. It suggests to me that he feels things are moving too fast for her and he does not know you well enough to trust you. He's only watching out for her and probably would feel more comforted if you were able to get to know the family more and well, not be a stranger. Also, if you show you are her friend as well as her boyfriend, that would be a good idea. She knows that being angry with her father over such an issue will only make things harder, so she's doing the more mature thing instead, knowing that with time, he will come to trust you if you are a good person that genuinely cares for her. Now, you've got to do your part.

You say she tells you she loves you and such, so why would you wish her to get angry at someone else she loves who has been there not for 8 months but for her life? The last thing you want to do if you care about this girl is to come between her and her dad, or to tell her how she should feel. That may be a reason the father would get angry too. She disagrees with him, but she also understands where he's coming from. I'd be grateful she has a parent who gives a care about it too. It's normal to feel agitation in this way, but the best thing for you to do is let the emotions pass and actually show you care instead of putting her in a worse position.

 

You're expecting her to risk the wrath of her father just so you could have confirmation of her caring about you? More of a taker than a giver aren't you?
Life doesn't work that way, kid.
She's being patient, which is still a vritue last time I checked.
She doesn't deserve her boyfriend's anger. It's the last thing she needs.

 

Yeah i agree with the dude above me.She has been with her father her WHOLE life!She can't just disobey him for her Boyfriend.No offence but i think if you are really mad at her you could get a new girlfriend and she can get a new boyfriend or you can just try and bond with her dad.

 

Dad -> Boyfriend
period.

 

Not necessarily. Although this would be a thorn in our relationship, I can see she trusts her father's judgment quite a bit, and it would be natural for a child to trust her parents over her boyfriend. The defining factor would be if we still love each other or not.

 

Becoming angry with someone because they don't feel something you want them to feel is unreasonable. I've had friends try to get me to argue with my dad to get something they want and I've told them no because I didn't want to stir up trouble with my dad. Maybe your girlfriend just wanted to avoid any further trouble. Perhaps she has a non-confrontational personality.

 

for those of u who just said "father > boyfriend period" ur just spammin and its not like dat at all
she sat him down and told him that if it doesnt stop they are gonna have problems and hell mess up our relationship
and for the rest thanks i stopped bringin it up and her dad took her out to meet me and we had an awesome time today

 

This is an argument and an opinion like any other so it isn't spam. ;)

 

however your gf decides to handle things with her father is probably her own decision... if not getting angry at him for trying to keep you two apart maybe just isnt how she handles things... im glad it all worked out, though :D

 

What's the point of getting mad at her dad? It's only going to make him angrier at you and realize that he doesn't want you to date his daughter. But if you show him that you're mature about this and can wait, he'll respect you more. Simple logic.

 

Uh, no? Her family is always going to be there. You, most likely, are not. It was actually really mature of her to take and accept the punishment the way she did. If she had overreacted and gotten angry with her father, do you think you guys would even be talking right now? She told you she was upset. You shouldn't blame her or get mad at her.

Though, I understand where you're coming from and I'm glad things worked out. ​