Khv, I need help. See, theres this guy that I like He has a girlfriend Welp, not really, he described it to me as an "Its Complicated" thing, which screams out some kind of relationship between him and this girl, he tells me "Close Friends" ok, whatever This "close friend" of his has been away on holidays for a while During which time I have been having 3-4 hr conversations with him on FB chat (yay!) I feel like the b*tch though, and my instincts tell me to stop liking him, but the more I think about it, the more i do :( so, khv, what should i do about this? Leave it and go with the flow, or do something about this crush? help??? P.S, all of my horoscopes so far tell me to go for it, but they're also meaningless crap =P
Well...I personally wouldn't persue it. "Complicated" does imply a relationship, and they might be trying to sort it. Anyway, do you know how he feels about you? Or even if he wants a different relationship?
So...leave it and go with the flow? awesome. I think he just sees me as one of his friends, nothing serious. Though he actually seems interested in what i have to say on facebook, but I wouldn't read too much into it. As for a different relationship, I'm dont really know. Then again, I don't feel like knowing... Thankyou for teh advice! much appreciated ^^
I'd say leave it for now. You don't really wanna be known as a 'boyfriend stealer'. If they do break-up, maybe then you could then tell him about your feelings and see if he felt the same way, but don't jump in immediately if their relationship seems rocky. Anyways, if you don't push the situation, the crush just might fade away, and you'll find someone else far more compatible for yourself :>
From the way that they said 'complicated' I would stay back for a while and see what they are actually doing, if you make a move to soon and too early on you could end up hurting all three of your feelings. If you are able to, wait and see what they are to each other and if it is nothing then go for it
Complicated huh. He must be having problems with his relationship with her, but either way they are still together and you shouldn't pursue him in the way you'd like to yet. Stay friends and if all else fails with his current relationship, then there's nothing holding you back.
I mean If you really have strong feelings for this guy then just tell him. But don't do it so that he'll break up with his current one. And also if you do end up telling him. Then do it in a good way. Like say(only if you decide to tell him) I just wanted you to know that I have feelings for you. And these feelings turned into a crush that I have for you. And I just wanted you to know that, but not so that you can break up with your current gf. But to let you know that if you ever need someone that really cares for you than I'll be there. And I also do hope that the current problems you have with your current girlfreind will be resolved soon. So that you can be happy again so that our friendship can last. Without problems that may hurt you in the process.Or something like that.
Not sure if this is classed as a bump or not, but its still on the first page so... I'm pretty sure she's not his girlfriend. Something like close, maybe childhood friends, but definitely not a girlfriend. His relationship status is 'single' and knowing him, If he's in a relationship, he'll post it. Now, IRL, we see each other at Tae Kwon Do once a week. So we chat every now and then, and he smiles when he talks to me XD My brother thinks that means he likes me, but I'm not sure yet. Any help guys?
