I was thinking a little about it this morning, and I realized that a lot of the people I dislike . . . well, I can't remember how I've come to dislike them. We all have people we dislike, but maybe sometimes, we don't know why or how we came to dislike them. Perhaps it's a certain quality of theirs, a certain tick, maybe a falter in their personality. What makes you no longer like someone, or never like them to begin with?
Usually it's rudeness or coarseness. I can't stand it when people are mean to other people for no good reason. And also when people b!tch about their friends behind their backs. Other than that I'm okay. If someone is just really annoying I'll probably well, be annoyed by them, but not really dislike them as long as they have a good heart.
First impressions are suppose to be a big factor in things. Eventually after gauging behaviour after so many weeks by how people act and deal with things. Then there are turning points, where in a instance you could find out something about someone and change your opinion of them. It's hard to tell really, but you can guess by the way you act with people and how they react to gauge a sense of what is right and wrong way to interact with people. I know where this is coming from, but I wouldn't worry about it, just stay positive and stuff
High strung people bug me. If you stress out about every little thing, it gets old quickly. Also, I can understand having a bad day, but if you take it out on others that have nothing to do with the situation, I normally end up commenting and letting ya' know that its wrong (I work at a retail store, so i run into both of these things a lot).
It's really annoying when someone tries to hang out with you all the time. There's this one girl I know, she's really nice and sweet, but she is so f*cking clingy. Every time I see her come up to me, I have to resist the urge to just start going off at her because I want her to give me some space. She doesn't understand the concept of giving space. There's also people who just insult you for no reason, but when you say something that might be minorly offensive they flip out. I hate those kinds of people.
I don't think I really have it in me to truly dislike people. So far there has only been two people I have legitimately disliked, however, simply because one psychologically wounded a few friends, and the other told an offline friend, after they had came back from a few months of counseling after a suicide bout, that they should have killed themself. Aside from those two, I feel putting forth energy into disliking someone is meaningless? You would be considering their every action each time you see them or their name, and would naturally feel compelled to vent about it to someone, which could then lead to pointless drama and the likes. I hate confrontational at best, and conflict makes me feel physically ill due to how heated I can get at times. In essence, no, I do not dislike people, because it is too taxing on myself. However, I do recognize people as "annoying", and generally avoid contact with them unless it's necessary or I am pulled into a group that involves them. Even then I mainly ignore their presence, as they typically tend to annoy me within a few phrases. :v
