I'm thinking of this a lot lately. I mean, I noticed that I've passed this word 'Love' through me like it's nothing more then any other word. I've been through so many disscussions with my parents about how relationships I've had with saying 'I love you,' before leaving, or saying goodbye on the phone. I thought about how Love and Hate have been thrown around carelessly in the US, I don't know about other countries everyone's different, like it's just another word not thought about. Now I make my relationships go down the toilet, because I think about how if I really care for this boy. He says he loves me, and I'm not sure if he even really knows me. Even though our Parents say the same three words in front of us, and we just think of it to be another way to say goodbye. My parents raised me to be kind to everyone and care for people that care for me myself. I've told my friends that I love them, but in the friendly way, and they take a whole other way. I get so upset with that too. Some people don't mean much of it, and some people take it too literal. I say that I hate things all the time. And I hate saying it so much. I 'dislike' things a lot, but not hate them, like they should just destroy itself. *Actually, I do think of that for somethings. xD* So, what do you think True Love, and Absolute Hate mean to you?
True Love and Absolute Hate go together. If you love someone, you will hate them somewhere down the line.
You're actually right with that statement. I mean, look at 'Like a Virgin' by Madonna. ._. But, she lives in London now, ironically.
At my age, true love does not exist. Kids are just simply too immature in my opinion. Same goes for absolute hate. And in terms of how long they last if they are achieved? An extremely short period of time.
For me you have to ourn the love, and hate. If your mean to me then it's a dislaike, but of you keep doing it it becomes a hate. I have to know you for a long time, and started to really trust you before I can say love. It just doesn't come to you.
True love is the form of romantic affection that is considered pure and wholly positive. The unique individual for whom one feels such affection. LOVE is not a feeling. Love is an action. Love is a choice. True Love is the action to choose unconditionally in the process of offering to another human being the qualities of: Affection, Care, Concern, Respect, Thoughtfulness, Forgiveness, Compassion, Trust, Joy and many other positive emotional expressions of value and worth toward ANY living being as being Loveable and valuable. Removing life support for a dying loved one. In every example, Love is an action through choice. When you see each other and have a smile on your face, when your loved one makes a mistake and you can't get angry on him even when you try hard. When you think of spending every possible time with your loved one. This is true love "True love" can and will differ from person to person based on emotional maturity. To know true love you not only must love in such a way that you would give your own life at the drop of a hat to save him/her, but you must be loved in return. If you get married to someone, and fifteen years later, you can still look them in the eye and feel the same you did on your first date, then it's true love. Like the below quote; a good way to know true love is to base it on how you feel for the last person you love romantically in your life. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Absolute Hate is when you can't stand that certain thing, you could wake up in the morning feeling wonderful, and you see that thing. It could mess up your day and you hate everything.
I try not to use the words "love" and "hate" unless I really mean them. I once made the mistake of using one of them when I didn't really mean it, and I ended up getting hurt in the end. >_>
The pleasure of dislike & like is alittle more satifying than haye or loving something that you really don't mean.
I understand that. In my age catagory, kids post that word like it's someone else's underwear. For embaressment and attention. And it's true. That's why I think my relationship right now is going to peices, because I'm thinking over if I really love/like this guy. I know I like him, but I'm not sure if I love him. I know I posted this thread for that reason too.
True Love, in the practical sense, sounds more like a state of mind rather than an actual "thing." It's the feeling that you've reached a level of trust and appreciation for another person or thing so great, it gets you by surprise every time you encounter anything involving them or the person period. A feeling of pure connectedness, that you think can never go wrong ever. Absolute Hate, also, is a state of mind, rather than actual thing. It can be seen as possibly a polar opposite in terms of connectivity. Love exerts a lack of fear for connection of two subjects, where as hate is a repulsion of two subjects for whatever reasons they might have. These two are, like every other emotion, totally subjective... so I don't find these two ideas even existent, imo... it all depends on if the individual sees them as real. Which I don't. They're idea's, and they should be treated as such. But whatever. lol
I don't usually ever use the term "hate" Church influences me too much @___@ And the only person I know I will always love no matter what is God, so I usually don't say I love you to anyone except for my parents, my brothers, and my sister. My boyfriend... I just don't know if I really love him enough to say it :S
I've too also thought about what love and hate mean to me. I change my mind on alot of things. I don't say hate to something but yo someone. I usally say 'dislike'. Because in the bible, you can't really hate another human being. But I think not, and I can hate a other human being. I swing the word love around everyday, to my friends. But now, people take it to literal, and I don't say it anymore. Cause they get the wrong idea and then they just... yeah. So I believe that love and hate are strong emotions, and that they shouldn't be lightly.
I think you can love someone a lot, or hate someone a lot, but i do use the i word i love you very carelessly with my family....not so much with my friends.
Love to me, if you are talking bout the romantic stuff, is when you find the right person, and when your with that person, it's like your world stops for that person, and you'll do anything for them. unconditional love, passion or compassion for someone, like your family and friends, is something that we don't have anymore. It's when your not just nice to them, but when you'll give your LIFE for that person. it's not when you want them in bed. now, absolute hate is common. To me this is not when you want to see them dead, it's just when you absolutely HATE them. If they do something minor to you, you'll make the biggest deal out of it. This goes hand-in-hand with being bitter towards them. You could want to see them dead, but then, that's not quite hate. Just my personal opinion. I personally have True love for someone and Absolute hate for several different things.
I only say, 'I love you', to my mom and dad, maybe my sister and pets, but not to anyone else. I just never really ever trust anyone that much as a friend or something else to tell them that. True love, I think it isn't that possible but then again I never really loved another person like that and I don't expect it to happen anytime soon. I have really hated a person so much to where I wanted to bash their head in but now I just try to act like I don't even know who that person is anymore. It is way easier to hate someone than to love them. I try not to hate so many people, like some of the people I hated I forgive them but others don't deserve to be forgiven. That's my thoughts on love and hate.
Love is somewhat cruel to me. I've never really had a real 'love' moment. I try to avoid using 'hate' but it comes when it is needed...
To me, when i say I love you, i actually mean it, with everything i know. I personally, have only said it to at most 2 people. One of those people is one of my best friends, and i really do love him like a brother. To me Love can be wanting to marry a person and be with them forever, or even just caring about a person as if they might as well be part of your family. But in the tooooooooooootall, U.S. wise, I think the word 'Love' is just thrown around like some other word. I say hate, A LOT. I abuse that word because at most i just dislike the person/thing. But i use it for even when i can't open a bag of chips or something. ("I hate this thing!!!")
Love involves still wanting to have sex with someone right after you've imagined them pooping. Hate involves wanting to poop on someone right after you've knocked them out.
