What do you think is too young of an age for sex?

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  1. Aura Goddess

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    I personally think that having sex under the age of 15 is too young.Mostly because,yes you're still young and have your life ahead of you.But also even a 13 or 14 year old's body isn't quite fully developed to have a baby.This meaning the girls.Our body's isn't at the 'age',you could say,that it's ready to handle having a baby.I haven't had a boyfriend so I'm not sure how it can be when your boyfriend pressures you to have sex.But if I end up having a boyfriend in high school or college or whatever,I already know the consequences to having a child at a young age.I can wait until marriage.When I first entered high school and saw a girl pregnant,I felt disgusted.But now it's whatever.I really don't care anymore.It's like an everyday thing.But I still think that the girls that I see that are pregnant should have thought a moment before they had sex.And I also wonder if the guy left them or stayed with them.I guess having sex at the age of 16 or 17 is fine but you're still young.They should at least wait a little while longer.
     
  2. EvilMan_89 Code Master

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    before age 17. i just don't think anyone before that age is mature enough to make such a mature descion
     
  3. Haseo Knight of Light

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    I'd say under 17 or 18. They aren't even adults yet before then.
     
  4. The Fuk? Dead

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    It depends on the maturity of the girl. I've seen 15 years old that could make that kind of decision, and 18 year olds that aren't smart and grown up enough to.
     
  5. Rockin Roxas Traverse Town Homebody

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    There's no age, just whenever your married, of course that doesn't mean if you get married at 15 you should do it.
     
  6. Daenerys Targaryen ok

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    And you wonder why your banned?My opinion is "STUPID."

    I think you should have sex in a car after your stoned and singing random songs ontop of a table at the bar like in the movie " 27 dresses"

    NO..really.
    I think if you are mature and love the person very much ( NOT MARRIED) 18 or 19.
    If you are married, then have fun.

    But the youngest age to have sex maturely and not just to say you did it.
    18 ot 19.
    If you are filled with angst and hate toward your parentals and want to see what it's like in high school your a s-l-u-t.End of story.
    Just being truthful.
    I don't think that's what I'm going to be doing in ninth grade on saturday nights.
    Don't be an Amy Jirgens"/
    Teenage pregancy is not so rare these days .. and I wonder why my mom doesn't want me having a boyfriend until I'm 16.Not gonna happen.
    It all depends on how mature you are though.
    (SORRY FOR TALKING IN CIRCLES)
     
  7. Juicy Chaser

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    Meh, I'd say below 15. 15 seems to be the age here when most people lose their virginity.. I find it hard to believe thats people in my year at school and the next year O.O
    But... yeah.. I think by 15 most people are physically and emotionally ready. But their shouldnt be a minimum age etc. It should be when you know in your mind you are prepared for it, and are with a loving partner.
     
  8. Daenerys Targaryen ok

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    I guess Wales is a pretty sexual place xD

    ^^^^^^^^^
    So should be sigged xDD

    Lol.

    Obsessed I hope you rebel against, the crowd of losing 15 year olds.Because I for one would be dead if my parent ever found out, you,most people?
     
  9. O R A N G E C is the heavenly option

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    As Misty said a while back, I wouldn't say there is a certain exact "age" in which it would be right for one to have sex, however I do think that waiting until you've been with someone for a long time and you're at least out of high school it would be okay. If you've got a steady boyfriend that you trust and you think you're ready to do it, go ahead. Although I do think that while you're still in high school it's a big nono. As others have stated, the consequences are huge, and if you break up with the person, which many couples in high school do, than it was kind of worth nothing. :/
     
  10. Juicy Chaser

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    ^^^^^^^^^
    So should be sigged xDD

    Lol.

    Obsessed I hope you rebel against, the crowd of losing 15 year olds.Because I for one would be dead if my parent ever found out, you,most people?[/FONT][/QUOTE]

    xDDD

    Nah, probably the average age everywhere in the UK.
    I don't want to lose my virginity till 16.. and with someone I trust. But if I was caught at 15, I don't think my parents would care. I have three older sisters who all lost it at that age, and my mum knows about it.
    Its pretty much the norm here.
     
  11. Daenerys Targaryen ok

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    xDDD

    Nah, probably the average age everywhere in the UK.
    I don't want to lose my virginity till 16.. and with someone I trust. But if I was caught at 15, I don't think my parents would care. I have three older sisters who all lost it at that age, and my mum knows about it.
    Its pretty much the norm here.[/QUOTE]

    I guess my country is different because if I got caught the boy would be bragging all over school and I would be a popular whore ;D

    Eh..16 is a good age I agree. **Becomes very secret**
     
  12. Juicy Chaser

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    Our quotes failed xDDDDD ^^^

    Becoming secretive is it? xD
    It shows how different young people are in different parts of the world...
     
  13. Daenerys Targaryen ok

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    Oh crap stupid qoutes.

    Yes, young people are different in different parts of the world,in france they drink tea in the USA, we drink Big Gulps xD
     
  14. Arc Kingdom Keeper

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    I see alot of hating on teenage moms, people saying their ****s and whatnot. my mom got pregnant with me, if my calculations are right, november 1984, had me august 1985, her birthday is january 7th, making 14 years old when she got preg with me, 15 when she actually birthed me. she struggled, dropped out of school, worked 3 jobs every day while my dad got drunk and got other women pregnant...so it kind of upsets me for people to put down teenage girls that get pregnant, because I tell you, no woman, in my opinion deserves more respect and more props. It may have taken her a long time, but she graduated highschool, went to college eventually, and is now the head medical assistant in the clinic she works in, a little 14 year old girl, who everyone said should get an abortion, she fought to give me and all my brothers the best lives possible, she worked herself to the bone, so really, you should rethink that 'all teenage preggored girls are ****s' idea.My mom has had ONE partner her entire life, thats my father. They are together to this day(though thats not necessarily a good thing) and she loves him dearly. if being 38 years old with only one sexual partner makes you a ****....then I would be a regular whore by now... I admire that woman with all my heart and honestly, when I have kids, I hope I could be half as good of a parent as she was to me.
     
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    Wow. I never knew anyone could have such a story behind their birth.

    As for the topic question, I say it's before whatever age a person gets married, whether it be 18, 45, 84, 2, etc.
     
  16. Kaiionel Hollow Bastion Committee

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    Well said. People shouldn't generalize because every pregnancy has circumstances that need to be considered. When people just immediately jump to the conclusion that "she's a whore", it's very judgemental and slanderous. It annoys me, too.
     
  17. Magick ~Meaner then my demons~

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    i dont think there is a certain age, just anything above fifteen, though unfortunately i know people who arent virgins anymore under that........pretty much whenever you're mature enough to handle it.
     
  18. Sexy Sheva Banned

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    To be honest, I think no girl/guy should have to choose an age, but whether she/he is ready or not. If she/he wants to be with the person they'll consent with, then by all means, let them...

    I found something also.
    Legal age's to have sex around the world

    http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm
     
  19. Nova We left a scar size extra-large.

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    The bible practically says that once you have sex with someone you're bound to them...
    That it's like getting married, and you should stay with that person forever.
    I believe that once you find someone who you truly are meant to be with, then it's okay.
     
  20. Vexen_Is_God Gummi Ship Junkie

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    I believe sex should be reserved for marriage only, so you don't have the bondage of soul ties to other partners. Yes, there are such things as baggage that you bring into a relationship especially if you have been intimate with someone prior to the standing relationship you have now.

    I made the mistake of sleeping with one of my boyfriends who asked me to marry him, but then he veered off into drugs and I couldn't stay with him.....