What do you find attractive in others?

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  1. Elemental Queen Destiny Islands Resident

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    I want someone who is kind, funny, at least decent looking to a point, loves animals, likes drawing or reading, plays videogames, is passionate or close even. And someone who respects my strange nature.
     
  2. Inasuma "pumpkin"

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    Ahaha.

    I lol'd. Not sure why.
     
  3. Kaiionel Hollow Bastion Committee

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    I've already found mine. ^_^

    -Sweet
    -Smart/Has a Backbone/Voices his own opinions and isn't a follower
    -Shy
    -Uncoordinated XD
    -Funny
    -Unique
    -Quirky
    -Reasonable
    -Not whiny
    -Respectful

    There are plenty of others but those are the top ones.
     
  4. Wisdom Form Guy Hollow Bastion Committee

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    I find a girl that is smart and cool.Also I love pretty girls.;)
     
  5. 00Roxas00 剛情のロクサス

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    Yeah, same her :)
     
  6. Ashwa <3 Hollow Bastion Committee

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    Hm.

    -Can be themselves around me.
    -Can put up with me on a daily basis.
    -Has a good sense of humor.
    -Someone who can be mature and intelligent.
    -Has the same feelings I have for them.

    Oh and their eyes. Or hair. I don't know why, but I love looking into a guy's eyes. Hair too sometimes
     
  7. {Vena_Sera}_ The Anti{Saint} King's Apprentice

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    a girl that is
    • creative
    • thoughtful
    • nice
    • loves music
    • likes me
    • wont go cheating on me
    • likes me for who i am
    • honesty
    • sociblity
    • not afraid
    • thrillseeking
    • likes what i do
    • likes my music
    • friendly 2 others
    • fun
    • likes muse
    • randomness
    • likes 2 read
    • smart
    • has no blonde moments
    • wont go lez on me
    • luvs me
    • ummmm
    • has fun
    • cute
    • doesnt do stupid crap
    • doesnt do drugs
    • likes jimmy eat world
    • likes heavy metal and general rock
    • understands things
    • cares about death
    • ummm....
    • ......
     
  8. Arc Kingdom Keeper

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    Smart
    able to hold a conversation, but able to goof off and be silly too
    not submissive, but not domineering either, a good mix of both
    book smarts. Knowledge outweighs street smarts anyday in my eyes
    great personality
    the eyes
    the smile
    can make me laugh
    loves me unconditionally, despite my *******-ness
     
  9. Humans aren't perfect, so my expectations aren't high. Just someone enough that can fit with me and we can have a nice relationship, arguments, sure, all of them have it, yet as long as we move on from it.

    Humor/Wit
    - That is a must for me. I love a guy that has a good sense of humor, makes me laugh, and also has a witty sense of self that combines with sarcasm, since that attracts me, for some reason. I'm closely the same way, so I want someone to share it with and not have them look at me blankly.
    Respectful/Chivalry
    - This goes in all forms. And is self-explainable. Be courteous, have some polite formality, show that you will take care and respect your woman. If she doesn't want you to touch her in certain places, then don't. If she doesn't want to go further, hold yourself, do not force her and betray trust. Don't assault her. Don't cheat on her, and if you're tired, then simply break up.
    Inteligence
    - I don't want a dumba**. I like that someone is smart, knows what he's doing, know what's important, show a type of education that can lead a discussion to be interesting. At least be wise on some subject.
    Interests
    - I also like for a guy to like me for myself, and I don't have to hide or protect what I like or what I enjoy doing because of the fear that he will think I'm lame or something. Accept me for who I am.
    Personality
    - I enjoy someoone who's outgoing, open, charming and charismatic. Kind, as well as sweet at times, yet I don't expect him to always keep it up to have me satisfied. Shows me he has some dominance in him, not whipped.
    Looks
    - Has to be cute, at least. Trust me, I usually don't care for it, but I found someone with some of the qualities that I like, yet the spark and attraction left after three months, and it didn't work for me. Is not that your egotistic, it just really depends on your taste.

    I know I'm the type to fall for a bad boy though xD.
     
  10. Misty gimme kiss

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    I like that everyone, save for Jellybeing, has basically written the same thing. xD
     
  11. Nobody's Shadow Kingdom Keeper

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    NOT A BIGOT.

    ^Due to a certain someone I have to deal with at school, I find this very important.

    Other than that I'd like someone who:
    - Can tolerate my shyness and bring me out of my shell.
    - Can appreciate my personality just as much as my appearance.
    - A strong character, boring people aren't exactly appealing.
    - As for appearance, I like boys of the emo-looking variety. << BUT, that is simply a preference. I try not to be too picky.
     
  12. Which is good to note down. That's what people like the most and want out of a future spouse.
     
  13. Aura Goddess

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    What I look for in a guy:

    1.Humor
    2.Honesty
    3.Trustworthy
    4.Mature
    5.Intelligent
    6.Sweet
    7.Respectful
    8.Has to have a good personality
     
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