Virgin?

Alright, this is for mature and kind people.

When i was 6 years old, my (old) best friend (of the same sex) asked me if he could suck on my reproductive organ. Now of course i said no, though he persisted and kept asking. I said no and no continuously, though he seemed to be upset over it. I had no idea how bad this was since i was only 6, so i let him for like....2 minutes.

I have discovered that this may be considered oral sex, though there has been much debate over if you lose your virginity through oral sex.

Please tell me, am I still a virgin? i was only 6 and had no idea how bad it was. I am very religious and have prayed for forgiveness a lot, and have prayed for my virginity back again,i read an online bible sex facts thing, and the priest/person said you can gain virginity through prayer for forgiveness.

However i ams till unsure, so please no rudeness, no insults, please be kind, honest and respectful. Everyone makes mistake, i was innocent.....

 

Okay well you can't gain virginity back for one thing. Another thing is that you were only six and you had no clue as to what he was doing. And finally no I think you are still a virgin!

 

Hmmmmmm well it was only for two minutes.

I do think you lost your virginity though that is sex after all. And because I don't have any religion I would say there is no way of getting it back.

 

congrats, on makeing the most ****ed up thread, i've ever seen.
i say no, you're not a virgin, but if anyone else asks then you should say yes.

 

This thread was intended for "Mature" people you would not go blurting out **** like that.

 

i am mature!!!!
and i gave my serious opinion on the subject.

 

I don't know what to say.. but I do know you need a hug ^^

*hugs* ;) don't worry.. you couldn't help it.. you were only 6 years old and you didn't know what to do...

 

I had a similar experience when I was younger but not really something I would ever talk about, anyway, To me I wouldn't care if I was a virgin or not but, to me you only lose your virginty until you actually come in contact with eithier or other sexual reproductive organ, depending you gender.
Whetther you knew what you were doing or not it still doesn't matter for what you think now, since you know it now you can choose whether it as right or wrong.

 

I understand completely and I don't think you are a virgin any more. I'm nearly 100% Certain God would give you your virginity back. If not, don't worry about it.

 

I don't think god has the power to give it back.

I don't think your a virgin either. It's okay, just
don't tell your parents.

 

*Cough*

I am not religious at all, you were only 6 when this happened. And for 2 minutes. In my eyes, you're still a virgin. I think you lose your virginity through, how do I say this to make it kid-friendly....? I think you lose your virginity through "Baby-Making", to be more exact without the other words. But that's what I say.

 

Well, since you asked my opinion, I think you are a virgin, because I never really considered oral sex as serious sex.

I will add that this was a wee bit too personal to post on the internet, but congrats on building up the courage to do so, anyway.

 

I think you would still be a virgin.

First, you were too young to understand what sex and what a virgin was. And I think you pretty much lose your virginity when you have intercourse with another human/whatever.

 

Technically you're still a virgin until you have vaginal sex. There's a thing in the vagina that is often called a 'cherry'. And (as far as I know) you're still a virgin until it is popped.

Men however don't have this system. Men having sex once is pretty much the same as the rest of their sex for the rest of their life. It's the value that men take in, not the physical means.

I think you're a girl so in that case you're definitely still a virgin until you have vaginal sex. At least, I'd think so. lol


EDIT: I've also had this kind of thing happen to me when I was about 10/11. >_> lol

 

Thank you, that's what I meant.

 

Also, oral sex DOES NOT MEAN you lose your virginity. Just look at this simple definition of virginity above

You've received a warning for that.

Don't ever post that kind of language in this section. =/

 

Darkwatch, you are correct. But I would just like to say I think Blitm is a male.

But yes, DW is right about the 'cherry'

 

Ah. So it was the same sex.

>_> In that case you don't even have 'virginity'. Because technically there's nothing physically holding you back from having sex.

And like I said. Oral sex =/= losing virginity. lol Virginity = sticking your ***** in a ******.

 

Technically you are still a virgin until you have full intercourse.

If someone were female, implying that you go all the way. Oral sex is not going to pop the cherry and also you were 6 and did not know what was going on any way. Even in the old days, a woman was still a virgin until the time where she had full intercourse and in some cases this would be tested. In simple, a female is a virgin still and acts of kissing, oral sex, or masturbation even cannot take that away.

Many young boys and girls are convinced to do acts that are sexual without realizing what the act truly is. However, as a male, if you were 6 and well, didn't really get off to what was done to you, then you have nothing to worry about. That would still be a virgin too. You really didn't know of the act and that it was sexual and the other person may or may not have known all about it either if he was as young as you. Since nothing really came of this, and you probably didn't get anything out of it but awkwardness, I'd say you are a virgin still.

 

yeah, usually when the hymen is broken a girl is considered to lose her virginity. but, it's debated since it's often teared while exercising and masturbation isn't considered to be the same as penetration by an outside person.

oral and similar activities aren't the same.

the literal definition to lose one's virginity, for both sexes, is to penetrate or be penetrated by another person, although it varies from person to person. some people may say that since lesbian sex does not entail the inserting of male organs into that of a woman's therefore she still remains a virgin, while others would disagree, etc. etc.

Edit: hah, looks like i'm beating a dead horse.