You know my Boyfriend....i love him and everything when he's not with me...when he is with me...i just feel...i dunno annoyed sometimes...i dont know why....maybe its because he follows me everywhere,and i mean everywhere,or maybe because he always wants to kiss me or hug me or give me a high five (he does that alot,had to tell him to stop,that it was annoying.) I just dont get this feeling...does it mean i have actually fell in love with him yet? he keeps saying he's fallen for me...but i just think...we're 15...arent we too young to know what real love is? i never say it...i dont want to hurt him...so can anyone help me figure out this feeling...is it normal....or have i not passed the like stage yet and into the 'Love' stage?
That is the problem with perspectives. You're fifteen, so of course you wouldn't know real love if it hit you in the face but the problem with that is that when real love hits you in the face you don't know it. The only real thing that you can do here is try your best to make it work out and if you can't do that then it won't work and you can find something better. Other than that, I'd say that he wants in your pants really badly to spend more time with you because he believes that you are a truly exceptional person.
I have a question for you: If he's your boyfriend, shouldn't you enjoy his company when you are with him? I mean I dunno about you, I have fun with my friends and my family when they are there.What you are sorta saying by that is that you kind of enjoy it when he's not around. It's tough.I am not going to say to break up with him because based on your feeling toward him it's going to happen eventually...But, I'll give you the advice to not put yourself through something that you don't appreciate.Especially a boyfriend. But,obviously,he really likes you...So just try to give it some time and thought before doing anything really drastic.
Real love is wanting the very best for another person. I'm betting he doesn't feel that way about you so..... dump him. It will make him a better person or something....
Tell him you need a break, and that you each need to date other people. If you both begin to miss each other while taking time off, then get back together and try to work on the relationship. :)
