Twilight Love Family: The Sanctuary

Na its cool Rise...I've heard great words from you and Kib both tonight...

 

Last, I've come up with a conclusion about dating at this age... If this doesn't work out, this is my last try until I'm a senior or even out of highschool... And I mean it this time. >_<

He asked me out... We started talking over the summer, and I really started to like him... I could rant on and on about why, but I'm not going to... I still like him alot, more than I'll admit to... But I'm guessing he doesn't like me anymore... *sighs*

Oh and I don't go by pages... I hit "reply" and scroll down. :/

 

...hello all..

 

everyone back away. atnig has a chainsaw again. atnig put it down
*still running around with his chainsaw*

 

Wait, you're telling me he does't like you anymore because you forgot his birthday....? Wow, so mature.

 

Hey Shadow...how are you?....

Hmm...I can't describe how you feel Destiny...in actuallity it is rather impossible to put feeling into a perspective...the greeks tried to with the seven strongest loves....they took a word and tried to put it into catergories....its not possible....love has lost its meaning to be truthful in my opinion....now I would like to point out I am not saying you said you love him...but I will be blunt....I do not believe it is possible to love at such a age...now am I saying that it is an exception at my age?...no....I am merely stating that the understanding of love comes with wisdom and mature with which you gain along your life as you move on....therefore it is usually implyed that love is trully known when you get older...however there are cases in which even the oldest people it turns out they did not understand it....

 

No, Kib, that's not what I'm saying... I think he... might like someone else. Ah nevermind, it's too complicated...

Hmm... I never heard much about the Greeks... Anywho, it may not be true love, but my feelings for him are strong...

Hey, Light.

 

Well I could list worse-case scenario's but no,it wouldn't be right.

 

Ok...sigh...how to put this...apparently they are not as strong as you think they are then...it seems today that teens in general have this thirst to have a girlfriend or boyfriend....honestly I don't see much of why....being single has its benefits too....no one person is really special as far as friend wise....you treat everyone equal mostly and aren't expected too much special from either side....there is less stress....less worry....more money in your pocket...that one is true as blue...it may sound stingy however if you try being single for a little while you will notice it.....but basically back to the topic, personally I see no reason to continue a relationship that has no feeling behind it...there is nothing wrong with having him as a good friend....however if you really wish to hold this relationship together talking with him is the key...and none of this myspace, facebook, im crap....face to face talking....

 

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... I don't know... *sighs*

 

Its your choice of course Destiny...I try to just give advice and options...unfornately my opinion on things comes out in these types of talks too...proof right there I am not perfect...however I would stongly suggest...if you wish to continue it....talk with him face to face about what is going on...how you are feeling...how he feels....if you don't....try to break up with him in a way that will leave no hard feelings and you both can still be good friends....I suggest you take time to gather your thoughts before making a decision however...and to be honest...perhaps taking a break from the site to do so would be good...talk with a friend would be a good option about it too....

 

Okay... I think it'll be best to talk to him about it first... Maybe try and find him when he's not with all of his friends, because I get really nervouse when I say my feeling with a bunch of people around... Part of why I use poetry to express myself more than half of the time... :sweatdrop: I don't think I'd have the heart to break up with him, though... I've already broken another guy's heart just a couple months ago... I don't think I could stand hurting somebody that badly again... And whenever I try to talk with a friend about it, it's really awkward... >>

I'll try and see what I can do... If we weren't meant to be together, then I'm sure God will show me, in time... *hugs* Thanks... I feel alot better... :)

 

Indeed...rely on God....pray...he will help guide you...however I must point out you have not hurt anyone...he was...oh how to put this...clingy I guess....you really didn't believe it would work out between you two....therefore you did what was best...for the Both of you....of course there will always be depressed and saddened feelings after something like that....but life goes on...and it doesn't mean you have to shut out that person forever...understanding and time can help these kind of wounds usually...*hugs*...I'll try to always be here for you Destiny...

 

You're absolutely right, Last... And luckily, in that situation, it did... True, he was clingy, and it did hurt at first, but now we're friends again and we hang out every day... And he was able to find another girlfriend... Which lets me know that he's really happy again... ^^

Unfortunately, I've still got a little bit of homework left to do tonight... So I must be heading off... Hopefully I'll see you later tonight. ^^

And btw, I have to write an essay about any singer's career, and I'm aloud to choose which one... And I'm sure a few of you will be happy with who I chose... :D

 

Hopefully Destiny...use that smart head I know you possess...and make it a wonderful paper like I know you are capable of...*smiles, hugs*....

 

I haven't seen long posts like that since Repliku o_O

Hey again family :)

 

Hey guys, what's up?

 

OMFG if it's Hannah Montana I'm strangling you..

and don't talk about God too much..some of us don't believe..

nothing.

 

that's sounds exciting lol...

 

Oh my god!

It's Doctor Evil!

*Spazzs*

Kill him!

*Tackle-attack*​