True friends?

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  1. sora awsome11/10 Traverse Town Homebody

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    What are true friends? Do they help you whenever your sad? When you get into a fight.Would they get up and help you? And fight for you? Would they lie to you? Would they not talk to you when your need some one to talk to? I don't know what a "True" Friend is.Can somebody piz tell me!And i'm not dumb i just don't know what the hell a true friend is
     
  2. Accalia Gummi Ship Junkie

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    True friends are there for you no matter what. They don't judge you and try to stop you from fighting. True friends are honest, and are there for you when you're down.
     
  3. Rhiscx Banned

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    In my opinion, I true friend is someone who is loyal. Can share a laugh with you, and will cry with you when your sad. I fiend is someone who you feel comfortable with. One to share your thoughts with, and you can be yourself around. And a real friend would say, "Your not dumb". And support you, and push you in the right direction. Finding a true friend is hard. But you choose your friends, not the other way around. And if I or anyone else hasn't reached any of these requirements for you, then I apologize. This is what I think a true friend is anyway.
     
  4. Amaury Chaser

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    True friends are people who will always stick by your side, regardless of how much is not in your favor.

    If they don't like something, you like they will try and compromise.
     
  5. Excasr The Forgotten XIII

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    A True Friend is someone that really care for you. Is someone that, don't matter what happens, will stay by your side. The true friend will support you when you need and NEVER will let you. The True Friend will fight for you, will even give his own life to protect you. Is someone that you love, and loves you. The True Friend will yell at you if you need, maybe hit you if you need, but he/she will only do that because you NEED it.

    "Cry together, laugh together, and at times fight each other. This is the True Friendship."

    When you is with someone that is important to you, you feel something. Maybe Happiness? Not only that, you'll feel the bond that connect your hearts. One bond that don't matter what will be irreplaceable.

    "To him, you are irreplaceable. The proof lies in yours memories together."

    I hope that helps you. =)
     
  6. Makaze Some kind of mercenary

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    Who your true friends are is up to you. You cannot just ask other people what being a true friend should mean to you, and you also cannot ask them to tell you which of your friends are being true to you. It is up to you to decide what makes someone worth having around and to decide who fits that standard and who does not. Getting a lot of good traits thrown at you may seem helpful, but it is still up to you to decide whether or not your friends have those traits or if those traits are what make them valuable to you. If you have to ask random strangers who your real friends are instead of those friends themselves, then you are having a problem before we have even given you advice.
     
  7. nasirrich King's Apprentice

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    A true friend

    Well to me a real friend"True Friend" Accepts the mistakes you make. And when you are in the wrong will not defend you at all. They will make sure you will see the right side of things. They make sure you understand your mistakes. They don't try to act perfect ever. They tell you when some other people you may hang out with is fake and maybe using you. Oh and they will treat you with the same respect you give them. When your feeling down they make sure that you will come out of it and bring you back up. They also have respect for your view on things and never try to make you feel as if what ever you believe in is wrong. They won't sugar coat anything when the time calls for it. Even if it doesn't they make sure you understand that life has people like them once in a blue moon. And if you can't accept that you may have did something wrong at a point in time. And they told you straight up how your actions will cause these things to happen to you. Then its better if you stay in la la land because people like them are life savers.
     
  8. Day~Dream Kingdom Keeper

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    Well... a true friend can mean different things depending on the person and what the definition of a true friend is to them. It doesn't have just 1 definition. If its someone you can trust no matter what and who you'd always be there and they will always be there for you, then yeah. If it's someone you fight a lot with and can't stand most of the time but you still love that person then sure. (Those were just examples) But like I said, it depends on the person. You just need to experience it if you feel like you haven't. When you do, you'll know.
     
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    I think a true friend is someone who sticks with you through anything, who won't abandon you for something, who talks to you when you are sad, who supports you when you're scared, who makes you laugh when you need it most, who knows HOW to make you laugh and what makes you cry, who don't lie to you unless it's for something where they know the truth is worse than the lie (and it doesn't harm anyone)- White lie. Atrue friend is undefinable however, don't be mistaken, they may slip up and hurt you but only a true friend would realise and say they're sorry. I think it's impossible not to fight with friends and it's niave to expect such a thing.
     
  10. ♥♦♣♠Luxord♥♦♣♠ Chaser

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    It depends really. A true friend can be there for you when you need them but at the same time they can be there to pretty much tell you that what you are doing is really stupid. Pretty much they are there for you through thick and thin.
     
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    It differs with everyone.

    To me,a true friend is someone willing to put up with all my "drama",my screaming and anger,bad jokes,mean comments,deppression.
    They are always there for me,always with a joke,or just a hug....telling me that,no matter what,I am not alone.
    Also,I guess a true friend(in my opinion) is someone I can tell anything to,and that really makes me laugh until I cry.

    But as I said,it does differ from person to person.
    Really,its someone who makes you happy,I guess.
     
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    Personally, I think a true friend somebody who understands you, and takes you for what you truly are, rather than making judgements like many people do. You might not talk to that person all the time, but whenever you do it's not "Why has it been so long?" it's just the same as though you talked yesterday.
    That's just my opinion though.
     
  13. C This silence is mine

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    As Makaze said, you can really only figure out what a true friend is yourself and who your true friends are. You shouldn't listen to our opinions on this because it's exactly that, opinions, and in this case it's pretty subjective. In my personal view? Someone who's there for you and you know you can count on. That's basically all I need to consider something a true friend.
     
  14. Ego Imperium Twilight Town Denizen

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    In my eyes, loyalty, tolerance, and honesty are the key ingredients to a true friend. Everything else is completely flexible. A true friend is someone who can put aside the fact that maybe you're a bit different from them and find favor in the common ground you share; the won't let differences get in the way of being friendly. A true friend is someone who's loyal. If someone's gonna be there one minute, and gone the next just "because," then they're not really friends in the long run. At that, a friend is someone who's not gonna just spoon feed you the compliments and praise you're looking for. A true friend is someone who's gonna speak up and tell you when you're being ridiculous, or when one of your ideas or schemes isn't worth going for. Likewise, if they think you're on the money with something, a true friend WILL compliment and support you on it.

    That's my take at least.
     
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    True freinds are there for you through the most difficult of times. They always help you out when you need it.
     
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    A true friend is someone you get along with, and if you ever get in a fight and stop talking, you'll recover with that friend eventually, and go back to being true friends together.
     
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    Honestly, you can't ask another person what a true friend is because that should be something you define for yourself - not everyone is the same.

    This person doesn't have to necessarily match up with you perfectly, but they should be someone who you can step in line with, a person who understands you and you understand them. Everyone has different tastes and so you should find ones that appeal to you or may be valuable, ones that you would expect from them because you know you would return the feelings.

    You have to go out there and find them yourself, not ask us. You've got a pair of legs and if you want a true friend, you'll use them and find one.
     
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    To me a true friend is somebody who, no matter how you feel or how he or she feels, is always okay with being nothing more than friends. No matter what happens between you, you'll always be able to have that lighthearted friendship.
     
  19. Sacredlith Destiny Islands Resident

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    ^This.

    As for me, someone you can call as true friend is someone who you can trust, someone you can feel comfortable with, someone who will support you and lead you to the right path, and someone who will not betray you. Even though they might do mistakes to you, they'll come back to you eventually and you'll forgive each other and you'll live happily ever after! 8D

    And I might have to add, true friend is hard to find.
     
  20. Technic☆Kitty Hmm

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    A true friend . . . is a friend. And they don't have to do anything for you to be a true friend. They don't have to be special or help you with everything in your life or anything. A true friend is someone you would do anything for. A true friend is someone you would die for, lie for, and cry for. A true friend is someone who if they went missing or died would send your world into such a down-spin you couldn't think straight. You wouldn't be able to carry on at the thought that they weren't there anymore. A true friend . . . is a friend.

    Basically it's like this . . . Friend=Someone who helps you out . . . True Friend=Someone you can't live without . . .