Tough Break Up

Discussion in 'Help with Life' started by Nova, Apr 10, 2010.

  1. Nova We left a scar size extra-large.

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    I know there's probably been hundreds posted about on this forum, but damn, neither of us wanted to break up. We loved each other, but certain events happened, and we both felt it was best. It's been a week, and I'm still crying about it, and what hurts me the most is that sometimes I see him crying too, and... It hurts me knowing that it was my fault that we had to break up in the first place, and that I hurt him. I just don't know how to move on... What should I do?
     
  2. xXRhian+RoxasXx Gummi Ship Junkie

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    First off, why did you break up in the first place? That might help if people know.
     
  3. Nova We left a scar size extra-large.

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    My parents are never going to let us hang out again. Ever. And we don't want to sneak around together, so we decided it was best...
     
  4. The Fuk? Dead

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    What's always helped me was to find someone else. It may not be the best thing to do, but it usually works for me. Or, if you have anything that belonged to them that you see on a normal basis, throw it out or give it back, delete their number from your phone, just little stuff like that. It will take time to get over someone you loved, but with time, you can do it a lot easier than you may think. Also, staying friends may not be such a great idea.
     
  5. Ars Nova Just a ghost.

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    Well, I'll resist the urge to tell you to become this century's Romeo and Juliet, as I typically would... But do try to keep in touch somehow. Maybe you can make it work again, once you're out from under your parents' wings.

    As for the now, like Beelzefuk said, do your best to take your mind off it, and more importantly eliminate reminders of him. Those little mementos build up fast.

    Man... Those are really tough words to swallow. I have a different opinion on this, but it might only make things worse. I dunno, if you want to hear it, hit me up in private or something. PMs, MSN, whatever works.