Why did you want it to be female? :3 apart from the obvious reason of FEMALES ARE SUPERIOR!!! MWHAHAHA
Bulbasaur looks more appropriately female than male, at least to us. We tend to go for looks above function, so that's why.
Ooooh, I had no idea you could breed pokemon O.o I'll be over here... in my n00b corner of n00bishness!
I assumed this couldn't possibly be about Pokemon, because the only time I hear about resetting in a Pokemon game is when grinding for Shinies When I saw it WAS about Pokemon, I did a double take because I thought you got a shiny Bulbasaur after ten resets