There are so many love relationship problems on this forum that i decided to make a thread for them.I tried to find the old on but it seems to have been deleted.This is for complicated and hard to solve relationship problems. I'd like to start with a problem of my own.There has been a girl who i've liked for about three years now and we've been friends for longer and awhile back i put forward moves to show i liked her.I got her phone number and we began talking.i had been having discussions with one of her friends and she told the girl i liked her and she seemed to like me back.As we were talking she asked "did you mean what you said to (the friend)?" and i responded "i don't know anymore" because i've had too much on my mind and so much i have to sort out.I seemed to idolise her for her seeming innocence and difference from everyone but the more i got to know her the more i thought we should be friends.I just don't know if i love her the same way i used to.Any advice.Usually i'd be able to sort this out but i can't think straight lately.
I will point out once again that there are no generalization threads in this section. Anyone may write a thread if they have some problems and want some help. Therefore, just your own issue will be addressed here. Also, if you feel you like her more as a friend, you were probably infatuated with her to begin with and that died down. It's a normal thing that can happen and well, once the obsession sort of thing passes, it just does. I think that probably now you do feel she is more like a good friend and so that's how I'd take things now as far as this goes. If your feelings change and you find you like her as more than a friend again, it will be for more solid emotions than what you experienced so then you can feel better acting on those feelings.
I say the next time you see her clear your mind and stare into her eyes while you talk then close your eyes and see if shes the only thing you can think of.
Let things work themselves out. Really, these situations have a knack for solving themselves in due time.
We'll, i'm starting to have a little problem. It's not about here, it's about me. I'm starting to date this girl at my school, let's call her Adriana. I really like her and we were going to have lunch plans today. Our school is kinda odd and has two different lunches and on b-day lunches, we see eachother. Anyway, i was called to the nurse today and i was sent home because i didn't have my shots updated. It was also the class before our lunch break. I tried to get someone to tell her what was going on, but it didn't work. I feel so bad. In one past relationship i had to keep breaking dates for numberous reasons. I don't want Adriana to think i'm hanging out with someone else, i really like her. How can i fix this, and how can i fix myself?
Text her you had to get your shots done.No problem.She won't just go off the rag for something as insignificent as that.
