The Flaw of description

as with a lot of things descriptions seem to be relative, with Cins example, the girl is tall relative to you. to a taller person she is small. this is one of those annoying and confusing things that goes on forever as people keep coming up with different angles to look at it, excuse me while my brain drips out my ear while i try to think of a way to end it *slaps self with wet fish*