I swear, just when I think I've found a great guy and I'm over my ex, BAM! The guy says he's too busy with his job and trying to find college classes to have a girlfriend. Also, last night, I had to have a weird yet very sad dream over and over again. My dream started out with the graduation ceremony for the class of 2010 being held at one of the feeder schools. Then the graduating football players started chasing me and a few of my friends around the school. And guess who decided to chase me? My ex, Wes. Well, Wes chased me outside, where I ended up falling and scraping my arm up a little. He asked me if I was okay, and he kissed my arm. I asked him why he didn't just bandage it up, and he told me he just wanted to kiss it better. So we kept talking for a little while, then he helped me up and said, "I miss us." Of course, my first reaction was saying, "Is this some sort of trick to break my heart again?" And he said, "No, Summer. I really miss us." So we were silent for a while, then he hugged me and said, "You have no idea how much I miss you. I wish you were mine again." I replied, "Well, that's not gonna happen since you're still dating Kaitie." But he told me that he was gonna break up with her that night, then call me. Then it was time to go, and we stopped hugging and went our separate ways before Kaitie came outside and grabbed Wes's arm. He told her he "forgot something" and had to go inside to get it. That's when he found me, held my hand, and kissed me. Then I woke up crying. I cried because I doubt it will come true. He doesn't even talk to me because she yells at him and calls him names (fat ass, ********, etc.) whenever he tries to. I told one of my close friends about this dream, and they said it could be a sign that he still loves me. I'm just so confused, and I keep having this dream. I miss Wes, and I can't keep denying it. EDIT: He deserves so much better than her. She's cheating on him with her ex, and he doesn't know.
I believe this dream is a sign. I agree that he still loves you. It's just that once a choice is made, it isn't easy to reverse it. Try talking to him without his GF seeing you. Talk about the dream and about your feelings with him. He could change his mind about his new GF.
Biggest load of **** ever. Dreams are what they are. A dream! You obviously have feelings for him somewhere, or you wouldnt be dreaming about him. He doesnt still like you. Move on.
Basically what cariad said. He doesn't like you, you like him and you dream about him, meaning you need to get over him. That's all.
Signs in dreams are usually when something tragic happens,like when my grandparents died my mom keep having dreams of doors,flowers and my sister and I when we were younger. I believe that there are signs in dreams for particular things,but not this sort of thing. I believe that you still have feelings for him,and you are trapped in a cycle that you can't get out of. Just move on,it will be better for both of you. Also,if he isn't trying to talk to you it's better.It will help you in the long run.
Dreams are not signs. If this is true then I am screwed because while staying at my friends house I dreamt that I stalked and raped someone at my school. Please don't argue with me.
Dreams can be signs, while some are just dreams. Don't look too deeply into this. It's pretty obviously a reflection of what you want to happen, but it may not. I suggest you keep your head up and keep trying to move on, if it's meant to happen like that then it will but you can't dwell on these things. Good luck. <3
I am not here to say dreams are linked to the future or not, but one thing is clear your ex is dating a hore! If you truly care for him then you must tell him about what his current girlfriend is doing behind his back, or you could get a friend to do it. Either way he has the right to know, and the sooner the better.
Um, I feel sorry for you. I think that what we dream about is either what we want to happen or memories that we're frightening or were pure happiness. I think that your dream was just about what you want to happen, like piecing together the little things and creating a whole story, which you see as a dream. I think its best you move on because if you don't, well I'm afraid you'll just get sadder and sadder. I know you want to be with Wes, but your dream won't come true if he doesn't love you the way you love him. If your Ex's girlfriend is cheating on him, and you know this fer sure, then be a good friend and tell him. If he believes you and breaks up with his gf then all is going well. If he says he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now then don't pester him about it. It'll just make things worse. Don't obbsess over it, and I'm not saying that dreams can't come true, because I know that some can. Good luck~
Well then you have three options. 1. Go on with your life and ignore the dream 2. Create a clever scheme to catch katie in the act of cheating, and have either your ex or a camera with you. Or three you could just tell him yourself, have the posibillity of calling you a lier, and letting him found out the truth on his own.
I swear, I just hate my life. Kaitie has pretty much ruined it. She lied to me about liking Wes for starters, and then she called me a **** and a whore. Now, she's cheating on him, but she's making sure her friends (some of which are my friends) turn against me. I told my friend Kelli that if she keeps doing these things to me (and Wes) and if they're still together once school starts back, I'll just let her win. I plan on killing myself. She's even gotten around me at school and told me to go kill myself so everyone would be happy.
Dreams are mental visuals formed by the blending of emotions, memories, etc. in the subconscious. They can't be used to predict the future. He doesn't like you anymore, it's very unhealthy to go on wanting him like that. Just move on.
SNAP OUT OF IT! Listen to me everybody lifes sucks, my life sucks okay! I am scared to tell my parents I am a atheist since they are all christian, and I am attracted to my best friend who already has a boy friend who lives in ****ing Denmark who is coming this summer, and now because of that I won't see her till next year. Killing myself isn't going to fix my problems, and killing yourself won't either. You only have one chance to live on this earth. Your body will only be alive ONCE. Do you really want to give up fresh air, talking, exercising, or doing stuff you enjoy just because of some *****? He ain't worth you life kh. You are only 14 for Gods sakes, there is so much you can do. You could ride your bike with no handle bars. You could be a free runner and jump from building to building! You are who you want to be.
All dreams are is the subconscious mind trying to work out the issues of the previous day. There are no signs in them except what we choose to see. For instance, I once had a dream (off and on for several years, actually), where I and several of my elementary school friends were being chased by a dark, shadowy figure through some kind of rusty industrial complex, and always, at a specific point in the dream, I would slow down, unable to walk at more than a strolling pace, and I would find that my voice wouldn't work right. Now, nothing remotely like his ever happened, and if any dream I've ever had would be a sign, it's that one. Nothing ever threatened me in my entire life in any way remotely similar to that dream. Also, several times, as is probably natural for teens, I have dreamt of sex in some way or another, with someone or another, and yet I've never, to this day, been in any kind of relationship and never had any kind of romantic feelings for anyone. Trust me, dreams are, at most, entertainment for the sleeping brain.
