The Artistic Family ^.^ *We return!*

I second that.

 

I lol'd. Hard.

Been a while since I last saw you too. :3

 

Heyo fam n_n

Errm... Demi is wondering if she can get some help with on of her IRL friends whose behavoiur is starting to scare her a little ._.

 

Hey. What's the problem?

 

Well... She's seriously starting to worry me... I'll put up some parts of our MSN convos and it's pretty self explanitory.

Her: lmao *name of guy she met over the internet* asked me for a pic slightly revealing of me O_O
Me: O_o Tell him to go away
Her: lol i can't, he's smexy lmao i'll probs send him a pic if i ever get one ;p lol, he asked me to call him last night O_O

 

Do you know this friend at school?

 

Yeah, she's one of the only people who'll hang out with me. And she's also picking fights with the "Popular Girls" and recently done drugs and had a pregnancey scare etc etc.

 

Have you talked to her parents? Your parents?

 

Her Mum knows I think, and my parents don't have a clue what to say most of the time

 

Well, that's a problem...the only thing I can think of is to talk to her, face to face, and if that doesn't work, get a teacher or two involved, maybe even the school counseler. This could get serious fast.

 

It's made worse by the fact she won't listen to reason from anyone because she doesn't think anything is wrong and if me and our other friend say anything we're wrong, that she has the classic "Indectrucable" illusions so many teens have and we have exams this year that control out life after school ._.

 

Okay...is there someone who's gone through anything remotely close to what she's gone through? If so, maybe she'd listen to that person. Either that, or find someone whom she respects and get that person to help out.

 

If you break it down her root issues are her dad ran off when she was little and she has a few *****y girls after her... Her and eight tenth of our school have those issues. It's just rebellion without any serious cause. She's just so stubborn she refuses to see that anything is wrong and there's not really anyone she could talk to ><

 

Someone's going to have to break through those barriers that she's put up; otherwise troubles going to come...

Why don't you invite her to kh-vids? Maybe a more positive environment can help clear a few things.

 

I know >< And we're trying so hard but we need her to see the issue before we can help her.

And she wouldn't join. She thinks anime and video games are childish. O_o

 

Let's try this from another angle: What does she like?

 

Boys. And talking about sex with them to be exact. That seems to be all she does.

 

Hmm...I'm not going to be much help there.

Okay, then there's only one other alternative I can think of, but it's pretty desperate: The only way she can possibly see the risk of what she's doing is if she realizes she has something to lose...I'm thinking something pretty drastic.

 

Well, to be honest if she keeps going like she is she's going to lose the friends she has... But if we tell her that she'll say "In that case you're not true friends" and storm off... Leaving both me and the other fairly emo ._.

 

Well the subjects kinda went away from any real art stuff and I couldn't really post anything arty up, so I didn't know what I was doing here really, in an artistic family, where no art was going on, but if the competition gets going i'll stay here more often.
Anyone know of a new art comp?