The Single Life Life as a single person for me is pretty peaceful, I'm free to choose a path that will only affect myself. Quite frankly I don't need to be in a relationship to achieve happiness, I can achieve alone by fulfilling my dreams or by doing what's right for me. Some of my friends are happy in their relationships, but one of my best friends does tell me that sometimes it gets hard to maintain it when you argue with your girlfriend or you don't see eye to eye on a situation. No one can avoid having a disagreement in a relationship, it's just natural, but if you were to argue, don't treat it as the end of the world, it's gonna happen, but if two people in a relationship argue way too many times then it's bound to end. Being single isn't bad one bit, it's not good to feel lonely and try so hard to get into a relationship because that would mean you're dependent on someone, and I can understand that it's difficult to cope with being alone and not experiencing the wonders of dating but to me it's not needed. I never went to my prom, I never went to homecoming though I performed in the parade with my Percussion section. Back then I used to ask myself why can't I get a girlfriend? What's turning them off? What is wrong with me? But I've come to understand it's not what's wrong with me, it's no one's fault, it's the fact that everyone has their own likes and wants. Some can see true beauty in those who aren't as attractive as the prettiest or handsomest person at school. Personality should always be the key to finding someone to spend the rest of your life with, or at least to date. Looks can matter, with me I do want looks but I don't need a super pretty girl that's just nasty as you know what and acts so childish. I go for girls that have a nice personality, don't need super pretty or super ugly, but I don't want super ugly I mean I do have standards lol like not trying to be mean. At this point in time, I've shut my heart away from females, I've grown to dislike them almost to a point where I hate them. I don't want to go down that path but I really just want to be alone for the rest of my life, unless there's a good reason for me to go back to wanting a relationship because at this point I see no reason to be in one. That's just my take on the whole thing.
Where's All This Aggression Coming From My aggression is rising within me, I have no idea why it's coming out but I can feel it, and it's strong. I believe that willpower and aggression are alike because each can cause you to go through actions without thinking of the risks, but they are different as well. Willpower is good for pursuing your dreams, Aggression can also aid in that department but it shouldn't be used all the time because it could hurt you and/or someone else. I want to embrace it and learn how to become aggressive when needed since I hardly want to use aggression to solve my problems, I've witnessed it hurt others and cause problems. But at the same time I've seen it help others become successful with what they wanted to accomplish, and I say that in a good way not in the bad way. It makes me wonder, is Aggression good or is it bad? The thing is, it can be both depending on how you look at it. It can aid you in your dreams or goals or objectives, but it can also compromise those dreams, goals, or objectives. Which do you use more, Aggression or Willpower? Does it aid you? Does it hurt you? Or does it do both?
