So girlfriend leaves me over stupid stuff

At the same time though, at the end of a relationship, neither party owes the other anything. No obligations are held, so it's us to each individual person as to when they move on, and how they move on. You are literally attacking a guy for being different to you. Congrats.

 

I don't care if he did it or not, I'm attacking him for his reaction to the situation revolving around it and suggesting how to avoid it: By being considerate of the other party's feelings.

 

Idea: Let's all play nicely?

 

There's nothing wrong with explaining your side and discussing it. Nothing has been said directly to SBW.

 

We're clearly not going to see eye to eye about this, so I'm not going to bother continuing this conversation. Just realise that not every break-up is one that involves consideration and happiness.

 

The issue here isn't that he insulted a woman, it's what the language was implying.

 

tbh i didnt even read the post

 

me neether.

 

just read it



this thread reminds me why im not a people person.

everyone in this thread should be ashamed.
im ashamed. this is a mistake ill live with for the rest of my life.

kill this thread before the disease spreads.


and with that



im outta here

 

This is thread is such an internet reaction thing. I don't think real life would constitute the need to insult so immediately.

This is an uninformed backlash here. No one knows what actually has gone on but they've formed the answer already and haven't considered they might wrong.I understand emotional reactions, but uniformed reactions are stupid. Kingdoms have been tricked into wars over such unclear knowledge or misinformation.
If people really wanted to know what happened and berate them, i'd rather they have the facts.

 

MOTHERFUCKER DON'T TALK ABOUT DISEASE

YOU HATED ON KARI WAHLGREN

 

okay .

 

But SHE left HIM. She has no right to get mad for being replaced. For all we know all SBW did was rebound, which imo is fine. If I were his ex I'd let him deal with the breakup however he wanted. She's in the wrong here, I totally get where he's coming from.

 

Are you missing the part where he said "fucked another bitc" and "bitches make me laugh "? That's where the sexism claim is coming from. As far as handling the break up... Overall in life, you shouldn't be a whore. Period. Been there. Done that. Not good. You should always give it a certain amount of time before you rebound too to be considerate so both parties move on without pissing off the other, especially if you decide to stay in contact.

It's a huge double fault. Sure, she should let him do his own thing but he should try to be considerate of her feelings. If instead of trying to pitch blame, people looked at how they share it, we'd be in a better world.

 

I agree with you on the timing thing, and I wasn't a fan of the sexism either. Im more or less annoyed that she left him and then got mad like she thinks she's still supposed to have some sort of power. But no I agree with you on everything else. To me it just sounded like she was being controlling post-breakup, which she has no right to do

 

>calling people whores for rebounding quickly
Are you for real? The OP never even said how long had passed.

 

I'll ****ing **** another ****ing **** in the ****ing **** mother****er.

 

"Not just ****, but the word too!"

 

I'm ****ing all its ****ing holes, the dirty *****.

 

And suddenly we're back in grade school again.