Should I call my friends I haven't talked to in almost a year?

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  1. ShibuyaGato Transformation

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    Okay so as the summer begins the stress of being a freshman in high school in August is starting to hit me. I wanna know if I should call my best friends that I haven't talked to in almost a year. They were the only guys (Yes, they're both guys) that I could talk to at my old school. I was always made fun of since K-5 up until seventh grade and they were the only friends that I ever had. For now i'll talk about the as J and R. So R came in the school in sixth grade and he was all alone so me and J who had known each other since kindergardn but hadn't become friends until third, make friends with him. All three of us were constantly made fun of that year but next year J's mom froced him to go out for the football team so he became somewhat of a Jock and wasn't made fun of anymore. R was made fun of but not as much. Leaving me to be the main person in the group who was constantly made fun of. When I left I knew that R was moving too but turns out that the move didn't work out so he's still living here. Next year he's going back to the same school that we were all in. J's mom works at school and he and his two sisters get to go there for free so he's not going anywhere. Since i'm stressed and they're the only real friends I ever had at that school should I call them and plan a party or go to a movie or something? Please help me with this one. Oh, and if you figured out who I am IRL and are planning to make fun of me then don't because I swear that I will make sure that punishment is in order. Just because I left FCS last year and you haven't had a dummy to pick on doesn't mean that i'll still put up with the same s--t now. Again please help me. I'm really nervous about talking to them again so some suggestions on what to do would really help. Thanks.
     
  2. Gobolo Traverse Town Homebody

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    I would say go for it.
    I'd say that the only case you shouldn't catch up with old friends is if you fell out with them and that's why you haven't talked but it doesn't seem that way.
    One of my best friends at school went to Canada two years before we were going to go to highschool, and three years later he called me up and we met up when he visited here. We just hung out like we did when we were at school together. We were different from back then but we still had the same roots that made us who we are.
    A family friend of mine only get to see eachother every year or so but we just treat eachother the same and hang out as we always do. As long as you don't rage against your friends and don't talk because of it, a year or three of not talking to them is fine. So sure do give them a call. And just hang out and do whatever you usual do.
     
  3. Always Dance Chaser

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    Actually I saw one of my friends that I fell out with back in 6th grade a few months ago. We actually got along fine and got each other's numbers, never actually called each other though.

    As for op, I'd say go for it, it might be kind of scary but it should help your situation.
     
  4. Misty gimme kiss

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    I agree, you should go for it. It never hurts to try, and the worst thing that can happen is you either get turned down or you spend one crappy night with them.
     
  5. Gobolo Traverse Town Homebody

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    Yeah generally if you fell out with one of your friends getting back together later is fine, however sometimes people take longer so for the sake of safety I added the whole as long as you didn't end on a bad note factor because I don't know J or R...
     
  6. Always Dance Chaser

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    aaand just today I saw one of my other friends I fell out with, and we both told each other to fuсk off, so yeah depends on the situation xD
     
  7. ShibuyaGato Transformation

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    Alright. Thanks guys. I'll try texting them later and ask if we can go see a movie or whatever. I guess the work of this thread is done. A mod can close it now.
     
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