should i be feeling this way?

Well, i have two problems and i need some advice!! please!!

1) I broke up with my boyfriend because he treated me horriblely but i feel really bad that he is sad.

2)MY best friend turned bisexual and I feel so horrible for her. I feel as if itz my fault that they are both like that.

Can anyone help me?

 

1. Screw him, he'll just do the same thing again most likely.

2. Care to explain why you say its your fault?

 

1. I agree with RoxasvsRiku. He knew that if he treated you horribley you'd leave, so that's his own doing. If you go back he'll treat you the same because he doesn't know how to treat you.

2. Um... That's not a bad thing at all. If a person turn's bisexual that's there choice and how they feel. You can't control the way a person feels, this isn't your fault and it's no where near a bad thing. Don't feel bad.

 

1) he would always beat on me
2)I always pushed her to get a boyfriend and I've been friends with her since kindergarten

 

Well then...

1. Once again, screw him and if he beats on you, you can report him for assault.

2. Its not your fault, she choose that path not you. And ShadowJak is right, you don't have control... so don't let these things get to you ok?

 

Well, Iwon't let it get to me because She moved. I live in kentucky and she moved to Virgiina.

She told me she was a bisexual over the phone and I started bawlin my eyes out while talking to her.

Im afraid for her because Being a bisexual is against the bible, AND SHE GOES TO CHURCH!!!!.

 

1. Exactly why I think dating is stupid at young ages. But I read this in a book, it may help: "If he can't notice a gem when he sees one (you), then is he really worth your time?"

2. Bisexuality isn't a bad thing. She can still have a boyfriend. Hence the term BIsexual.

 

2)well the thing is, I kept pushing her to get a bf, and she could never get one, so That's why I think she is a BIsexual

 

... Wait, you think...? Well that doesn't mean she is... Maybe she just doesn't want a boyfriend.

 

Well, thats not entirely your fault... I mean you can't hook her up with anyone. I bet you when she gets a bf, she'll be fine.

 

1- My advice is to NOT screw him, but if he beat you, dump him!

2- Eh, so she's bi, she's still half straight. I think that's enough that God would let her go into heaven, after all, he's the one who sets our destinies.

 

No, that is why I think she went bisexual. I know for a fact she IS bisexual. she told me she asked out her best friend Santaria

 

So she asked out a girl, we're only human. God can't expect us to be perfect. God made us in his image, not EXACTLY like him.

 

You are soo right, i can't control her life. I'lm gonna support her.
Her name is Melanie. her birthday is on March 9th, so when I call her, I'll tell her I will support her all ther way. But I'm straight all the way

 

Yeah, bisexuality is not a bad thing. I can't say I can explain it to you or why it happens, but it's just something lots of people have come to accept. Homosexuality used to be considered a disorder in earlier revisions of the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders), then they removed it over time.

I won't say anything bad about religion, but I think it'd be wise for everyone not to take the Bible as literally as many seem to do. You can easily find as many statements against and for things such as homo/bisexuality.

 

okay, so, at least she is half straight. thank goodness,


but what am i to do with my exboyfriend?

 

If he beat on you, call the cops.

And who cares if you're friend's bisexual? It's her choice.

 

Because it's probably just a stage in her young life.


1. Don't feel bad about someone that treats you bad. He beats you, don't let him push you around. What I'm saying is...is tell him to go screw himself. You can get better respect from better people; not him.

2. She's bi? Why is that so bad? She can still date men, you know. And so what if it's against the bible? If your friend is happy being bisexual, then God should be happy she chose to live that way; because it's what SHE wanted, and God chose her destiny.

 

So what? He deserves it if he treated you badly. It's not like you guys will stick together forever and get married. High School Love is 90% puppy love. =/

So? It's her choice. What's wrong with being Bisexual or Gay? So what if it's against the bible? If she's really your friend, then you wouldn't make such a big deal out of it and support her. Sorry if I sound harsh, but I hate it when people discriminate bisexuals and homosexual because of religion.

 

She is happy with her choice, I want to thank all of you for helping me!