Hey guys I have got a really big issue! There is this girl at where I live and we are very good friends. We dated for a while, and still are. But, we have been together for some time now, and I think I would like to drop a bombshell... I might want to propose marriage! But I am getting the butterflies in my stomach every time I try to even speak about it. I have this nice new ring, and I think I am all ready, but then I crash and have to start back up again! So, Kh-Vids, please help me on what I should do! Any advice or helpful tips on what to do? Do you guys think I'm doing it too early? Or shouldn't do it at all? Thanks so very much in advance, ~Phazeun
Well I think it's sweet that you want to propose. The butterflies are really difficult to get over but you've just gotta pick a nice place to do it at, get over the nerves, and do it. For example, try doing it in a nice park at night. Just do something that will dazzle her and then pop the question. Hope this helps. ^^
Okay, I guess that might work! The park suggestion is really nice, I might have to do that! I was also thinking Italian restaurant = insta marriage... LoL.
An Italian place might be nice too, but what kind of food does SHE like the most? Taking her to that kind of place would help too.
The butterflys are normal your about to ask somone to be with you forever ofcourse your gana feel like that. Take her to a place she loves going the most and make it romantic :3 If you honestly think your ready to be with her you sould ask. This is just my opinon i hope i could have been some help:3
I normally take her out to Italian restaurants and sometimes we eat at those grill typed places. She has a different selection every time. She also loves salads! I hope that's enough information. Thank you, you all totally are!
Well ask her where she wants to go the night that you wanna propose. Cuz if she has a different taste every time then the best way to know where she wants to go is to just ask. ^^
Ooh... good idea. What about reserving seats or even the best wine selection? I'm sure some places do that...
Maybe, but ask her first THEN reserve. If you do it before asking she'll most likely end up wanting to go to a different place and you'll have wasted the money for nothing.
Aww hope it goes well oh yeah you can take her to the somewhere nice or go to a garden and prospose to her ^^ i prefer you take her to a garden ^^
Thank you all for the great morale support! I am so much confident about it now! I shall tell you the results when I next see her!
GOOD LUCK OMG!!! ^^ sorry I get excited about proposals and other stuff. Umm how about the first place you guys met or somewhere you had a first, like first kiss or first dance.
First off, this is not the best place to ask for a proposal to marriage. If you don't know how to do it, then it's not the best time. You alone know your girlfriend, so you alone should know what would be special to her. Marriage is nothing to rush into. I have three friends who have dated and lived together for over ten years before getting married. Make sure it's the real deal, because you could be engaged forever, but weddings are expensive. I guess you can go ahead and pop the question, but this is a Kingdom Hearts forum, where kids ten and up come to play.
wow you sound like my dad when he was gonna ask my stepmom! O_O anyways heres what i told him to do just get up your courage and think it's now or never if i don't get courage to tell her how i really feel then i'll be regretting i never did!' think how happy you[ll be when you finally ask her and get down on one knee and ask to marry and be with her for the rest of your life! stop obessing about it and do it wherever it feels right (don't spend so much money on a fancy restruant) my dad asked my stepmom in front of our house but anyways i know you can do it! you can do it! *cheers* and good luck! (ask her in person in front of a memory that was good like when you first kissed her or something like that) XD GL!
Isn't making decisions for a girl you are going out with a powerplay? So my advice is similar to Magick's. You know her, surely there is a place which she loves to go for special occasions. If you ask where she would like to go and make a reservation she's not going to pick a special place - just a place she feels like eating at if you want to propose at a resturant. If you are going to do a meal and propose which is supposed to be a classic move then pick a place you guys have gone to celebrate a promotion, new job or anniversary. Alternatively you can pick a location that is special to the both of you that isn't a place to have dinner and arrange for something amazing to happen. This can take weeks or months to perfect but is great for making the moment special. Don't rush into it by reading on a forum that you should reserve a place and then propose there - do something that is really special to the both of you. Regardless of where you chose to have it you absolutely have to make it perfect and personal to the both of you. Like Magick said, if you don't know what to do and you are going to take a stranger's advice about how to approach a lifelong commitment then you aren't ready yet. When it comes to a propasal you should not have to ask anyone, because you should know the most about her than anybody else does. Only someone who knows absolutely everything about their girlfriend/boyfriend is ready to marry in my opinion. So if you would like to marry but you don't think you know everything about her then there is no rush. In time you will know her like the back of your hand, and at that point you will be able to safely propose to her. But then again I'm just a stranger on the internet, aren't I? It's up to you.
Yes, I understand, but I just needed some support. I have been together for lets see, 3 months now? And I know that the decision is right, just having butterflies on were and when to do so. (I hope that's what I said on the front page...) I now am more confident on what to do. Just the normal: "Is every thing right? Where should I take her? What kind of food does she best like? (Which is Italian by the way...) And for posting this on this site, I'm sorry but, I feel like you all are the best to help me. This environment is so friendly, it's like you all are my internet buddies! xD. And I know most of you are very mature, and I'm sorry for those who aren't and maybe this thread isn't ?appropriate? for them? Thanks again, and uh... sorry again xD ~Phazeun
