Ok so

Dude.......... Breathe...........

 

p-please dont fight

Hell naw.

It´s unfair.

I need to lose my "not having dated anyone in khv" card.

It´s gonna happen. I swear it.

 

Freaking out and being desperate doesn't help... Get to know someone, be friends with them and after a while, ask...

Respect their opinion if they say no, continue being friends and look elsewhere...

And if you're desperate, find the most desperate person on the forum also and date them. :P

 

You´re totally right.

Im gonna make a thread asking for another desperate soul.

 

You can't date yourself, Sara.

 

I'm probably too old for everyone here. And I haven't dated anyone since Arc. So nyah... Not desperate.

 

why would you think that though

but y. is this because i said i dont like ygo gx?

 

It is now.

 

._. kids these days

 

Even though I've been romantically close to a member or two, the only member I've officially dated on here would be CtR, but yeah, we never met in person. Flights across seas are expensive, yo.

 

Wait. Like seriously? I thought you were a guy too. Ah ****

 

Am I the only one/one of very few (it seems) that felt 61 was a girl?

 

How come I only got banned what the fuck[DOUBLEPOST=1475754774][/DOUBLEPOST]

I was there for that.[DOUBLEPOST=1475755068][/DOUBLEPOST]

 

Actually if we are going to go this deep into the psychological side of jokes posted on khv, let's go deeper.

This is one of those 'facts' (but not really a fact) that people like to spew out whenever somebody says something like "no homo" in a joking way. Rat, or anyone else for that matter, making a joke (no matter how distasteful, and im not saying it is or isn't) doesn't automatically prove that he is insecure. If anything is offensive, it is somebody shoving that down someone else's throat. If someone says a joke you find to be offensive, saying "hey man or girl or whatever- don't say that, because it might hurt someone's feelings" is fine because you care about 'x' member, but being like "joking about 'x' means you are insecure about your sexuality" is not only just as offensive as "no homo", but it is rooted in assumptions and not fact.

Random side note, but you also have to realize if true equality is the goal, that means jokes have to be made on both sides, otherwise its like "you can joke about 'x' but the moment its about subject I care about, the all bets are off". That kind of thing is not only laughably unfair, but it hinders progress. If jokes can never be said involving a certain group of people, then by extension, assuming equality is the goal, no jokes can ever be told. I don't see that happening.

 

I should have worded that better. There are many people who indeed just say that in a joking way, but I've seen people, particularly guys for reasons I will never understand, say "no homo" at the end of some sentence involving some form of "you look handsome, bro" or "I love you, bro" (in the sense of a sibling) because they don't want others, particularly online, to think that they're gay for giving their best friend a compliment.

 

Right, but there is no way that could be that large of a group (by comparison of the rest of the human race), so applying the logic that you use with those people and just 'copy pasting' (for lack of a better phrase) to every other situation where you see the phrase "no homo" is never EVER going to work out well for you. Context, for one thing is essential, and knowing Rat for even five minutes would have told you that he was joking.

 

Pretty sure she wasn't admin anymore but I legit can't remember if she was when we started.

 

Remember that time you hit on me?

Do it like that.

 

Well yeah, you were easy, but only because you were actually GOOD at acting like a grrl.

Those were dark times for me.

 

Advent and Harriet will always be my fav I think

#inb4whoisadventandharriet