Oh wise KHVers, I seek your advice

What works with you =/= works with other people

You're not the prime example.

 

So what you're saying is that what works on me absolutely cannot work on anybody else in the world? I may not be the prime example, but that certainly does not mean that I'm an invalid example.

 

The problem with your suggestion isn't that you're an invalid example because you're not the prime example. Your suggestion is much more drastic than needs be and the risk of it not working isn't worth it.

 

Ah, I see. I'll give advice based on other people's experiences, then.

 

As Llave pointed out a few posts ago, the issue has been resolved

But while we're on the subject, what worked for me was the guy telling me he liked someone else. He didn't specify who so I couldn't fb stalk her or anything. After a few months of calling him an ******* I just gave up, and accepted it wasn't going to happen.

Somebody earlier, I forget who, said that friendzoning someone gives them hope. That's actually kinda true, I mean, I had a guy tell me he just wanted to be friends about 5 years ago, and I wonder if I can ever get a shot at him again.

Eh, just some thoughts there.

Btw Space Gandalf, I really appreciate your advice and I get where your coming from, but I think it's just a little too extreme for this situation, as Boy Wonder said.

Thanks for your help, everyone.

 

Not really, it just stagnates people.
You're caught up in the belief that "If I wait long enough, this person will TOTALLY find me attractive" meanwhile that person is ****ing god knows how much other people that aren't you. While that person is moving on having relationships, you're waiting for this one person to look back at you.
But it's generally advised to look forward and not back in life.

 

I'm pretty sure that's what these people mean when they're saying it gives them hope.

 

Yea, saw that post, then scrolled up a bit and realized the redundancy of mine. Glad everything worked out though ^^