New Style

And that person would like to add that he has not demanded change, he has not raised the flags of war, he just simply is trying to get used to it while searching for bugs.

 

"Color scheme" is an extremely broad term. The grays? The white text on gray? The yellow links? Doesn't help me at all.

Centering... a lot of things are centered on here, a lot isn't. It's extremely vague.

 

Okay, can we not talk about me like I'm not right here? Now I'm pissed. I literally went out of my way to NOT offend you.

I don't know what it is. That's why I haven't brought it to you. I haven't had the time to take screens of every thing I feel would look better if centered and doctor it so you can see. I haven't brought it to you yet, so don't bring the fight to me because that is, frankly, bullshit

AND IF I EVER DID EXACTLY THIS TO SOMEONE I'D BE WARNED OR THROWN IN TIME OUT

 

Nate was the one who brought up these complaints, I wasn't attempting to drag you into it, just to respond to it. I think you're doing the right thing by waiting until you have something specific to point at and say "this is bothering me." Just wish people here were less negative, but whatever. Really don't give much of a **** anymore, I know I & the others worked hard on this skin, I know a lot of people like it, if some people don't then it's tough noogies unless they're willing to be proactive about it. It's no different than any other style change on here.

 

It's the internet. They're going to be negative. Be glad you got half the positives you did with the change over. The thing to remember here is that some people just aren't mature or caring enough to be concerned with taking a role in the improvement. So you gotta weed out the noise, not give it power by getting upset, and look for people who really give a crap about this place.

That said, Below and I literally didn't want to upset anyone and that's why we made the big deal. I only revealed how I felt to make Amaury see what he now see's, and it even escalated from there. I can't speak for Below, but I, personally, do not wish to demean the work done here. It's a lot of work that took passion and personal time. I'd have never done that. I lack the motivation. But I can see faults, and the change over is especially hard for me. So being able to be upfront and not feel like I upset someone is comforting to me. This is not comforting for me.

 

I agree with you that ignoring (or at least, coping with) negativity is important, but I won't lie about my feelings or tell people "no, it's all good to **** on the fun." I think I'm fairly pleasant but I'm not the forum punching bag either, I'm a human with emotions and feelings. I've said my part: if there are things you dislike about the style, please constructively point them out and I'll address them. If you want to just whine, well, have fun going through life that way. It makes people feel like ****. Deal with the reality, or not, it's your prerogative, but don't get put out when you're told the truth.

 

No one's asking you to lie, but no one's asking you to respond to it either. By responding, aren't you giving them power? You cussin' and fussin' shows they're getting to you. It's like you're letting them win. That said, you're the leader of a community showing clear signs of the stress others have put on you. Nigga you gotta own your art and just do you. You should never be above open criticism, (as you've stated you're not so good on you), but you always need to filter out the noise. Take some time one day to read the comment section on Egoraptor's Star Bomb music video. Took him about a year to make that video.

(Wait, that's how you spell prerogative?)

 

Funny you should now suggest that I don't reply when you linked me to this thread, albeit to do some moderation, but if you had thought that this may garner a negative reaction then you could easily have messaged another member of the staff. I know how to manage myself, I've been doing this for a long time and this is hardly the first time that we've received negative feedback about something the staff and I have put a lot of work and heartache into. I'm a big girl, I can and do deal. But, as I said, I'm not going to sit around and pretend that negativity is appreciated by me or on this forum. Sorry if you don't like that or think I could behave myself better, but I don't think that dishonesty or hiding one's feelings are healthy ways to continue through life.

Regardless, this conversation is going nowhere productive. I've told everyone what to do if they have problems with the skin, but if they want to fester in their own poisonous attitudes then have fun.

 

I messaged Ashwin too, actually. You're dead on about something though- this went nowhere. You owe me some flowers gurl.

 

I don't think we need a new skin, or any skin at all. In fact, the only style we should have is some REAL A CLASS STYLE TRAVEL



ROAD TRIP 2K11 NVR 4GET

 

Is "not hating" it the same as "liking" it?

 

In the "things needing to be fixed" department, I have noticed that sometimes the "click to expand" thingy in quotes gets cut off at the bottom. For example:

 

I more like the new update KHV is running on for XF. It's not as glitchy as before.

The skin has too much gold just thrown around and seems out of place. That's my only complaint.

 

Better suited for this thread: http://kh-vids.net/threads/welcome-to-the-new-kh-vids.143335/ It's more organized for bugs and general fixes of this nature to go in there, noted nonetheless though.