My life sucks

Discussion in 'Help with Life' started by Scarred Nobody, Nov 29, 2008.

  1. Scarred Nobody Where is the justice?

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    No one can get throught to my mom. Trust me, she is the most thick headed person i know. there's no way you can change her mind.
     
  2. P E A N U T ~*~Never Surrender~*~

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    Nobody at all? That's pretty bad. I guess there's not much you can do there, then.

    But what about your brother? Can someone speak on your behalf to him?
     
  3. jafar custom title

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    Even so, talk to somebody else you can trust about it. They don't have to change her mind, but it helps to talk to someone who is understanding. If you don't have a family member that can help you, talk to a guidiance consuler or a teacher, and they're also more likely to help you resolve the situation.
     
  4. zexykupo Gummi Ship Junkie

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    Oh my God thats horrible!!!!
    If I were you, I'd try to talk to an adult about it. Maybe like a therapist or something.
    I'm sorry if I couldn't help you, but it's all I could think of.
     
  5. ♥AL90♥ Hollow Bastion Committee

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    As dumb as it sounds I don't think your mother would really throw you out into the streets. I mean she'd miss you too much.

    My mom used to make threats like that all the time. But she never went threw with them.
     
  6. Dinny I am Anime ( ⚈้̤͡ ◡ ⚈้̤͡ )

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    Oh well yes that does suck...

    But yes, I don't think she'll throw you out. Heck no. I think you should try talking to your mom about it calmly, but yeah maybe a therapist first. Try to get along with your brother [just try, no matter how hard it gets] that might settle some things. It may seem impossible or something like that but it might help. Though if you don't want to just take the first two things I've said. Talking it out with someone will help.

    Hope things get settled for ya, Tummer.
     
  7. White_Rook Looser than a wizard's sleeve.

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    Hmm to me it seems like everything you are saying is countered by how your family actually feels. You are not reading your mom right at all.

    You say you are so different from them, but in some ways maybe you are really actually -fighting- to be different from them to include your likes and dislikes such as music etc. Also, not showing your brother affection and your mom getting mad at it and threatening to kick you out if you don't fix up your act...

    She's ticked off at you that you aren't a team player of the family. She's upset at you and I'm sorry to say, you feel you are an outsider by force, she feels you are one by choice and that you are breaking up the family. I would seriously work on trying to get along better with your family and trying to not be such an 'individual' if you don't want to force them to get really angry at you. They do love you or they wouldn't react like this. Your mom feels scorned. You have problems with your brother but not showing him or anyone else in your family affection or that you even relate to them with even liking a single song they do... you are making this problem bigger than it is. Try finding some common ground is about all I can suggest. Your problem is not as bad as it could be. You can fix things.