My 'Boyfriend' Is A Self-Centered Idiot

Look at this blog entry:

Everyday at school I try to talk to RavenTammylita but she is always talking to her friend insted of me. I am getting tiard of this everyday. I was thinking about breaking up with her but it was only like 10% so it wont happen and besides I love her. I hope she will talk to me more insted of her friend. Though dont get me wrong, I am glade she has a best friend that is always there for her. Its just that they spend way to much time together. I am sick of getting left out on stuff. I want to be with her every chance I get. I want to be her boyfriend and hold hands if she will let me.

Is that not the most pathetic thing you have ever read?!?! It's not like I'm purposely avoiding him. He expects me to make all the moves around here. As if.

And I can have friends if I want to, damn it. Go play your freakin' Nintendo DS (he's obsessed with the damn thing), and if you want to ask me out SOMETIME THIS YEAR, then you'd better do it before I move on to bigger, better fish. And trust me...there's plenty!!


Eh...sorry about this. I just needed to vent my frustrations somewhere. ^^


Mish edit: Closed, because you've posted this in the spamzone aswell.

 

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So if he is your boyfriend, camly explain to him that YOU HAVE YOUR OWN FREAKIN LIFE!!! O.o

 

yeah you have a voice use it!(sorry, that sounded lame)
that fish analogy made me lol.....
i just finished venting my frustrations on my thread too....

 

I saw that 0.0

I was scared.

And its good to vent sometimes. Venting is good.

 

Very agreed! And Tammylita you're so right. He needs to make some moves too. And well assuming you're not together yet. WHAT THE HECK?! If you two like each other that much? I mean he's probably like afraid you would say no. But that is not a good excuse.

 

This is the same exact reason my parents got divorced rofl.

 

Wow, you totally took that in the worst possible way even thoguh it wasn't necessary. Grats to you. He said he's glad you have firends, he's not saying for you to ditch them, he just wants some attention to. Christ you women ask for the same thing when we stare at your breasts >_>

And BTW, your boyfriends fails at spelling, lol.

I'm laughing my *** off right now thanks to that...

 

I do agree with Shadowjak,

@SJ WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY THE STARING AT OUR BREASTS PART? XD lol

Anyway, I see what you mean, basically he's feeling left out and is envying your friend. Thats what I think.

 

I felt exactly the same way with my girlfriend before I asked her out, I couldn't get close to her because she was always with her friends, it was actually quite intimidating trying to talk to her when you are surrounded by 5 or 6 girls who would rip you apart if you did anything wrong =/.

Basically what I'm saying is he kinda has a point.

 

*smacks SJ hard over the head for the comment* Keep it clean.

Yeah, he sounds like a jerk, do you try to include him in activities you do, though?

 

thats the truth right there.

 

The thing is, I only have one really good friend in school that I sit with. She's pretty much the only friend I've ever had.

It's not like I don't include him in the few conversations I have with her. He gets jealous whenever I talk to her. He doesn't understand that I'm a very insecure person and I've had social disabilities my entire life, and this is the first year I've ever felt like I fit in with anyone.

I know he's shy too; that's why I try to include him in whatever we're talking about. But he mostly just stares into space, muttering about how he "Can't take this" and how he hates us talking about "girl stuff." We don't even talk about 'girl stuff.' We talk about stuff stuff. Like the weather.

Honestly, he even says I should pay more attention to boyfriends than friends.

 

This may be a complete and total misinterpretation on my part, but:

From what you've described, you're both very shy (as you stated), but it could be that you're both coming out of your shells, you faster than him with all the times you talk to your friend more than him, however much more that may be. His trying to get more conversations with you might be a rather desperate attempt at 'catch-up', thinking he might be left behind in some way. I'm not excusing his behavior, you're right that the way he acted was pretty rude, but at the same time he's a guy: Guys don't tend to think things through much (speaking from a lot of experience in that department).

Or I might have misinterpretted the whole thing, and you already know what it is. I've been wrong before.

 

Yes, you're probably right Darkcloud...maybe I should be more sensitive to his feelings.
Thanks for all your help guys. :)

 

No prob. Glad to help. :)

I can't guarentee I'll be around much for awhile (school mainly, a curse on the person who invented it), but if you want to try and talk about other problems, feel free to pm me. I'll listen, if nothing else.

...weird. I'm starting to sound like one of those radio psychiatrists. Oh well, lol.

 

That's funny? >_> Wow I seriously can't believe some people's "humor" in this site >_>


Well maybe you should listen to some of the stuff he says maybe he feels left out. But still he shouldn't be telling you to talk to him more and pay attention to him more than your friends....