Mental Hospitals?!?!

Alright, this is gonna sound weird. Here goes... I wanted to commit suicide. My mom now wants to put me in a mental hopsital. WHAT THE ****IN" HELL DO I DO?!?!

 

talk to her about it - tell her you'll be okay nd you don't want to go

and in your dp - you seem too young to be that depressed to commit suicide

 

I think I'm safe till my next b-day (13), but I went into deppresion a couple years ago. so di just about everyone i know. Several pets died, several relatives, my mom gave away my only prized possesion, my life suck more than anyone else i know's.

 

i know how you feel girl - my lifes gone downhill since january - but as long as you've got friends - you'll pull through

 

thanx. if only Bubbles was here.........:crybaby:

 

who's bubbles?

 

that'ss my old dog's nick-name. his real name wuz: Wolfgang's Sweetest Composition Strikes Again, or Wolfgang Buddy Matea.

 

Maybe therapy first. You should tell your mom that if she's really concerned that she shouldn't just throw you away like trash...unless she's into that. I'm sure you'll see the silver lining if granted 1 hour a week to talk with a professional.

 

You need to quit being stupid that is what you need to do. Your mom had a good idea cause YOU were being dumb, god forbid she does something to care about you and in your best interest.

 

Well if you only see what you don't have then that's miserable. I bet that if I ask you something that refers to good and nice, you'll say "no I don't."
(I'm refering to your thought of commiting suicide)

 

thanx yall! I'm pretty sure it all blew over at mah confrence, but thanx.i'll defi. try sum of this if it strikes again!!!

 

i'm gonna say what EVERY1 ELSE IN THE WORLD SAYS....

its just a phase.......






er.. no... no... its NOT a phase... thats all BS... any1 can be depressed... i was as well.. i actually became depressed at an earlier age... <_< but i got over it... well most of it anyways.. right now, i just look forward to moving out... <_<
so my point is DONT be depressed... i look to the future and say i wanna try that at least b4 i die... and the mental hospital thing... well my enitre family thinks in phsychotic... and maybe evill too... so ur not alone tho it may seem like it... my fam WILL send me to a mental hospital as soon as they get the chance... i just try not to crack... cuz if i do... well its the end for me.

 

It is completely possible that you belong in one. Going to it is not nessicarily a bad thing as they'll tell you.
And it wouldn't be a mental hospital, but a place where you'll recieve therapy...if you are truely suicidal then this is a much better option than killing yourself don't you think?

I doubt they'd place you in a Sanatarium unless you were truely insane xD;

Common misconception here.
Look, I can tell you firsthand that YES, it usually IS just a phase.
But not always. People should not delude themselves into thinking it won't ever return.
It can, and does. My dad got it three times in his life. The last one proved to be fatal.

 

I don't know why people continually say they are depressed, I am so so so so sick of this excuse I really am. Oh boo something bad happens in your life and you feel like you need to be depressed, quite frankly I find it to be a cope out of taking responsibility for stuff you don't want to own up to. Just like ADD is an excuse for being a bad parent. Honestly I have seen and still talk to people who have some of the shittiest lives I have ever seen, homeless drug addicts who have no one left who can still find happiness by looking for something better in life then dwelling on stuff that has already happened. I mean really you guys tell me something that has gone horribly wrong with your lives that makes you want to kill yourself. Cause really there isn't much, people in third world countries can find happiness if you can't then thats on your lack of trying to.

 

It really depends on how dire the situation was. If your mother felt you were about to do something drastic right there and then, then hospitalization of any sort would have been the best option. Other then that I would recommend some sort of therapy or counseling.

Also, being in a depressed mood and clinical depression shouldn't be confused with one another. Clinical depression is an actual mental illness that can consume a person's entire life and really can't be fixed by just trying harder. Usually the best way to help it is therapy and medication. Being in a depressed mood however is more temporary. Usually in those cases a person will feel better in a short while or once they get out of that mindset.

 

if you continously feel that way for abt 17 yrs.. it just might be called depression. i try not whine abt it. i "look" happy. thats all that counts.
and i stopped dwelling on that crap.the past is the past, what's happened happened... who gives a damn... but its stil hard to forget the permanent deep scras and wouds it may have left behind.... but i look forward. if i didnt.. i'd be dead

 

Sorry to tell u this but...
1. my parents are divorced
2. I have a brother
3. all my friends left me to go to aother state\
4. my other friend that didnt leave was shot
5. everyone on earth hates me
6. i hate them back
7. I am continually stalked
8. my parents were jobless for years
9. i dont feel like writing more

 

So what I have highlighted are things that are not that big of a deal, well..ok kinda a deal. I have lived through all these things and more. Quite frankly its not your situation its your way of thinking and you are letting these more or less negative things get to you which is making you want all this. You can not believe me all you want but I have lived through it, I mean minus the drugs and gang **** I grew up around its the same basic principles we grew up around. The difference is I made it better for myself instead of thinking on the bad crap I have lived through. I had a friend of mine get gunned down walking home from my house one night cause he owed a guy money, you wanna talk about sad stuff, one of my parents has been drugged up my entire childhood.

Stop thinking its so bad cause you are the one that is going to change it for yourself no one else and when you wanna shove blame off of yourself because things get hard then you are not going to survive once you get older. Make it better don't wait for it to, you need to MAKE IT ain't no one looking out of no one except for themselves.

 

Everyone hates you?No thats something YOU think.Not everybody hates you.What you need to do is go into therapy.That will help.