Make up or Break up?

Discussion in 'Help with Life' started by Shadox D., May 11, 2009.

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  1. Shadox D. Twilight Town Denizen

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    My bf was recently caught trying to cheat on me.............
    I gave him a second chance for right now but I need help deciding.......
    Should we make up or break up?
    Please help me decide.........
     
  2. Finale Wannabe Nobody

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    =3

    dont ask people, or else LW will hate whoever answers xD

    aaaaaaand do whatever you feel is right =]
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    good luck.
     
  3. Styx That's me inside your head.

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    Because I'm too nice for my own good, I'll take this seriously.
    You mean "i hurt u so i'ma go kill myself" guy? Sounds like he doesn't score too well in the sincerity field...So yeah. I say let him learn it the hard way.
     
  4. TheMuffinMan Banned

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    I'm still really curious about this "cheating" thing

    did he internet cheat on you, and with who, and what did he do
     
  5. Finale Wannabe Nobody

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    tis internet cheating =3
    he was aking another girl if she loved him and if they could secretly go out on VM xDDD
     
  6. Catch the Rain As the world falls down ♥

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    If you really need people on here to decide for you then you obviously never cared that much about him anyways.

    If you want to be with someone then you are with them regardless of what everyone else thinks or wants.

    Only you can make this decision, though if you make your decision based on what we say then maybe it is better that you two stay apart.

    You are both bad for each other.
     
  7. Catch the Rain As the world falls down ♥

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    Love, really you should be talking this over with lil woj. We can't make the decision for you.
     
  8. TheMuffinMan Banned

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    also you should learn to date people you know in real life instead of stupid text relationships
     
  9. Magick ~Meaner then my demons~

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    That says it all, but really, I don't think you should stay with him. He did it once, he will do it again. In that aspect of life, people rarely change.
     
  10. TheMagicalMisterMistoffelees Professional Crazy

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    Don't get back together with him. I don't care if this is just internet or not, this is obviously disturbing(?) you and as far as I see it, it only serves as an inconvenience of everyone else. Besides, he cheated(?) on you and then threatened to kill himself(?) to get you back with him(Which I've yet to see him deliver on(It was an empty promise(I just lost The Game))).
     
  11. Kenni-Chan King's Apprentice

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    ...I guess he's not as stupid as he... Oh wait... Anyway... This does seem to bring an inconvience to you, so... Listen to TMMM.
     
  12. TheMagicalMisterMistoffelees Professional Crazy

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    Really sir? If you didn't want this to happen, then you shouldn't have cheated on her. You should've taken into account the risks that you were taking as you entered this relationship (common mistake, but stupid nonetheless), and you also should've taken them into account when you cheated on her. If you wanted her then you wouldn't have cheated on her, you know that if you get back together then you're just going to start a vicious cycle that I don't want to have to deal with, like most of the other members on here I'M SURE. LET IT GO.
     
  13. Dark Link Banned

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    he has cheated before and he is an idiot to do it again on this one in my opinion you keep on hurting others like when you were dating scarred_heart and you cheated on her with two others and then when she found out she dumped you well this girl should dump you too you dont deserve to have gf if you are going to cheat on her
     
  14. TheMagicalMisterMistoffelees Professional Crazy

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    Hey now, we don't need to get all offensive on him. Just chill out.
     
  15. Dark Link Banned

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    i am just making my case but ok I will :)
     
  16. TheMagicalMisterMistoffelees Professional Crazy

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    Making your case? You mind explaining why you seem so angry at lil woj?
     
  17. Dark Link Banned

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    He hurt my best freind by cheating on her and it makes me pissed that he would hurt another girl by cheating on her
     
  18. TheMagicalMisterMistoffelees Professional Crazy

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    Alright, I can understand that. But you need to realize that there is a line where peace should be drawn, and no matter how angry you are at someone you need to learn to just let things go.

    Of course, this is emphasized by the fact that the interbuttz are srs bizness. Really guys? I just realized that this is all happening over the GODDAMNED INTERNET. YOU'RE ALL AT FAULT HERE.

    lil woj, you are threatening to pretend to kill yourself so that a girl that you were going out with that you never even met and cheated on with another girl you've never met will come back to you and start going out with you, and you're a teenager. Jesus, you'd think you'd get the idea that NONE OF THIS IS HAPPENING IN THE REAL WORLD, STOP ****ING DRAMATIZING OVER IT.

    Shadox-whatsyourface, you are actually asking help from people you don't know over whether or not you should keep your boyfriend who you've never met either. I'm not even going to go into the fact that he's obviously ****ing unstable and you're never going to get anywhere with him OVER THE INTERNET.

    And Dark Link. You are pmsing over your online friend (no elaboration on meeting status needed here), who apparently decided to get into a relationship with someone over the internet and got cheated on. What I find hilarious about this is that you're taking this as a personal offense, and also the fact that you think you can do anything about it by flaming him. Jesus, if you want to get anything done, you can't over the internet alone because you can't really do **** over the internet.

    This is all solely based around this site about a series of children's video games, so I'm even doubting your level of maturity being high enough to handle this. If you tried to expand, I would understand but the fact of the matter is that you are making no attempt to and are dragging everyone else down into your **** in the process. I swear to god if I see another thread or anything about this that is taking this that seriously that I will personally make them sorry that they did not open their eyes and wisen up to how ridiculous this entire situation actually is.
     
  19. Catch the Rain As the world falls down ♥

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    And on that rather ****ing beautiful note <3

    ~Locked~
     
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