Loving more than one?

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  1. kairiheartprincess Traverse Town Homebody

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    Here is my thought to you: Is it possible to love two people at once in a romantic way? Can someone be in love with two people at the same time? It is a question that has been tugging at my mind for some time now. I am curious to hear your opinions.
     
  2. Nate_River Hollow Bastion Committee

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    It's possible, under certain circumstances, but I wouldn't reccommend it. I've tried it. :/ Didn't work out too well...
     
  3. Chevalier Crystal Princess

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    I don't think she means two-timing. I think she's referring to being in love romantically with two people; regardless of being involved with the person or not.

    As for me, I'm not really sure if it's possible. It's such a delicate subject, because love...is complicated. I do think it's possible to crush on more than one person, though.
     
  4. NamineKairiXion Moogle Assistant

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    I don't think it's possible cause one time this girl i know tried but the other boy got too jealous and it didn't end far too well.. >.>'
     
  5. C This silence is mine

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    Well, it I'd say it's possible. Though it's not really that easy to say, it sorta depends on the person and what they believe love is. It's definitely possible to have a crush on more than one person though.
     
  6. daxma Hei Long: Unrivalled under the Heavens

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    of course its possible. one thing about people is there infinite capacity to love. The only real question is whether its love you feel.
     
  7. Misty gimme kiss

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    I do think it is completely possible to have romantic feelings for more than one person at a time, but I don't believe that you could truly have 100%, genuine love for several people in a romantic sense.

    Like... I'm not sure if I'm being clear? haha. You can be attracted to a lot of people, and even fancy yourself in 'love' with them, but imo, true love will always be to one person, completely dedicated, all the time; no exceptions.
     
  8. Sakura Angel Traverse Town Homebody

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    I don't think its possible to romaticly be inlove with two people. Love is hard to explain but when you feel it you just know. Plus if your with somone you are inlove with and think your inlove with somone else maybe its just a crush for both.

    Thats just my opinon:3
     
  9. Trigger hewwo uwu

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    Definitely. I've been in that situation many times in my life. It's troubling, because you end up thinking about both people and how you feel about them, and then end up feeling guilty. That's how it was for me, at least.
     
  10. Jin うごかないで

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    I dunno here is my opinion

    yes you might Like to people at the same time but regardless it's not "Love" Love is a bond to people in more than just a bf and gf or relationship love is complicated but for the like two people at once well you like them but its not really possible to "love" two romantically at the same time.

    But this is my opinion you can decide if it is or isnt ^^

    but love can be: Friends family and relationships

    (sorry if i'm not making sense but its a hard thing to explain )
     
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    I think having a crush on someone is different, you can fancy as many people as you want really (well, you know what I mean), but love, love is something completely different and I don't think it's possible to truely be in love with 2 people at the same time. If you truely loved someone, you'll be faithful and only want them and only they can make you smile on the inside. If you like two people like that then I don't think it's love since you won't be faithful.

    You can love someone and fancy someone else, that's possible but not love them both properly.
     
  12. Radiowave ITSA PIIINCH

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    Is it possible? I don't normally respond to questions with other questions but "what's holding you back?" No one knows the answers to things like "love." Its a feeling. If you get that feeling for more than one person, then lucky you. Still, you must have spent a significant amount of time with these people and really really got to know both of them...I feel like thats rare but not entirely impossible.