Love

Okay, if you are in love with a girl, and she tells you that she loves you like two times a day, what should you do? I'm in this situation, and I don't know what to do. Sorry if this was supposed to go in the help section but whatever.

 

So, your in love with this girl. And she say she loves you back? Well first, dose she know you like her?

 

ask her out if you like her, find her favorite things such as genre of books, music, and other things and if you dont tell her to please stop, if yur friends with her, tell her she and you can still be friends

 

She probably does, but how should I tell her? I don't want to come up at a random moment and go, "Hey, guess what? I love you." Then walk off like nothing happened. I'm going to tell her right when we get back from Spring break though.

Another problem, I hate her music. And I think we are friends, cause if she ever asks me if we are friends, and I say yes, she gets excited.

 

Hmmm, you ever think about sitting down and really talking to her? And do you think you guy are MORE then friends? :/

 

well, try to talk to her. if you dont get along with her just tell her to please calm down. im kinda with you. i have that happen with me.but i like someone but some one else likes me.

 

Tell her when you guys are hanging out, just the two of you. At the very end when you're about to part. That way you end on a happy note instead of having this awkward tension between you two throughout the day.

Well, every relationship has its quirks. :huh: It's how you adapt that's real important.

Just make sure that if there's a mutual connection between you two, make sure that you love her for who she is and not how she looks.

 

Lucky guy.

Anyway, just make sure you feel normal. Not act like normal, but to truly feel normal around her. If you got all tensed up whenever you go around her, you'll get nothing done. Once you get used to it, then start following advices on top of my post.

Lucky guy >>

 

Well I was gonna say something but the other posters said it all~​

 

I like her for who she is, but she is pretty. Thanks for the information. I live in the same neighborhood as her, but she isn't around all that much, so I don't really see her out of school. At the bus stop, we walk towards the same direction for like 30 seconds, I guess that'd be a good time to tell her. I'll probably do it on a Friday to give her some time to think about it, if that helps.

 

I am saying this out of experience and I am not doubting your relationship at all but honestly never put to much emotion and stock in high school relationships. You can say I love you all you want but if your not fully convinced that it is love then be cautious. And quite frankly so what if she says it only two times a day, really it should be a known thing it, doesn't have to be said every three seconds cause I have a few friends are like that and it gets really old to everyone really quickly. But don't think to hard on it just cause she don't say it as much as you.

 

IMO - get to know her more.
You don't want a messy relationship where you aren't yourself and she doesn't feel comfortable. If she's asking if you two are friends then you probably don't know each other as much as you should. People shouldn't have to ASK to know if you're friends with a person, it's a silent agreement that you'll immediately feel if you connect.

 

I've liked her for like years, and we've gone out twice before. But now I see her more, so yeah. But it gets old when my friend say that she likes me. I don't know how to explain it, but like we'd be talking about reproduction is science class then my friend be like stupid and he'd say stuff like "Thats what she wants to do with Lucas (My name)." So that gets old. I'm pretty sure she likes me, whenever people ask her, she always admits it.

o_o. I always act as myself around her. I'm not scared to act like me. I don't really do what people tell me to do. All the girls that like me say they like me because I am funny and exciting, and cute. I always heard that women like Humor and Feelings, and trust in men, and that's why they like them. She always tells me I'm funny and stuff, so I feel like I hit the jackpot in a way.

 

If thats the case then you got nothing to worry about, she is saying so then its so. Don't get all bent though cause its not like an every 10 second thing anymore...once your past that who infatuation stage things slow down but they are never dead it just is a known thing that you guys do. Don't think to much on this is will ruin you trust me.

 

Wow. I just realized your a dude.

It sounds to me like she likes you. But thats just me.

 

Don't be like me, a girl I liked tried to trick me to confess my feelings cause she likes me, and I missed the chance on purpose (Oh god, that's painful), and then I hurt her instead (Unintentionally but still), and then when I finally got to confess on Valentine's Day, and then we had an arguement on the second day and till now we haven't spoke a single word to each other.

Suks to be me >>

 

Hmm...complicated! almost my situation, but i'm a gurl... Not sure, say that u kinda like her but wanna spend more time with her not dating or anything , just getting to know her!

 

You like her, and she likes you. isi there really anything complex with this? ask her out. get to know her. talk.

 

U should tell her! u never no , or u'll might end up regreting not telling her and miss the chance if u miss it ! go for it ! ^^ Hope it works out ! ^^