Love is eating away at me slowly

Discussion in 'Help with Life' started by JedininjaZC, Jul 12, 2009.

  1. Advent 【DRAGON BALLSY】

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    Elitist much?

    Anyway, you just need to move on. There are other girls in the world, others that can understand you like she can. Just find someone else, because if you attempt to break them up, you're a terrible person.
     
  2. JedininjaZC Hollow Bastion Committee

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    Ouch, and sorry I didn't mean to put it that way.
    The second girlfriend was a christian, and she hasn't talked to me ever since I told her I was an atheist. I have tried calling her, and stuff, but she never awnsers, so I guess she doesn't want to date me anymore. Then again I may be over reacting, and she might just be very forgetfull.
    Anyway sorry if I sounded Elitist.
    *fix*
    Also who said I was going to make them break up? >_> <_<
     
  3. Petru Banned

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    Well i can pull some strings and land him in prison
    jk jk
    how old is she anyway?
    just making sure shes not a young teenager.
     
  4. JedininjaZC Hollow Bastion Committee

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    Sierra?
    She is 17 and a half.
    Big difference I know. =p
     
  5. Inasuma "pumpkin"

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    You... broke up with a girl... because her religious views differed from yours?

    EDIT: sorry, seems as though she broke up with you. Sowwwwwy.

    You've heard of the saying "different strokes," right? Different strokes keep the world turning, etc? I don't know if that's how you are now, but that's a bit selfish if you ask me.

    If I was in that situation, I'd probably go out and meet new people, spend MORE time with her in hopes of a sway in her feelings or lie in a ditch. Pstttt the latter was a joke.

    Hopefully you do alright. I was in a very similar situation for a year and a half a while ago. It sucks.
     
  6. Mimiru Banned

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    Well this is from the single girl's point of view but it sounds like the Christian girl is just busy. Have you tried talking to her in person?

    Now back to the other girl.
    Just wait because those kind of relationships don't work except for
    Orville Redenbocker's but anyway like Petru said write poetry to relieve the sadness and write love poetry to express your love and maybe if your guys' relationship goes further than f/f to gf/bf you can use it to one day propose.
     
  7. JedininjaZC Hollow Bastion Committee

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    Nah, we just broke up. It seems she didn't want a long distance relationship
    :/gasp:
    I don't thinks its possible that those two will break up.
    Especcially since she is going to visit him in 4 days.
    :nerve:
    And I pretty much know exactly what there going to do.
    They are going to go all the way to home base, again.
    Anyway I guess I have little choice in this matter so I guess I might as well lay around for the time being.
     
  8. Mimiru Banned

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    How long were they friends?
    A great relationship always starts out with them being friends. Look at Petru's fiance.
    friends for 13 years then dating for 9 years.
    Being friends for 3 or under years won't make a relationship long just so you know.
     
  9. TacoGrenade King's Apprentice

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    You've got quite a pickle haven't you? Anywho, My idea is just to be patient. If her boyfriend is off in Denmark then to be brutally honest their relationship can't last all that long. You on the other hand are very brave to have even told her yet, many people wouldn't have dared. Though it was also a very stupid move, no offense, but chances are that she is now much more uncomfortable around you as you her. Even if she leaves her boyfriend you may find yourself pushed to the side because of confessing to her. So my advice to you is to sort of avoid her for a while. Keep your distance until she gradually feels more comfortable around you (trust me I've been in the same situation). Try to date other people, this will help you and her thoughts of you. If she hasn't left her boyfriend in a year or two, well there's plenty of fish in the sea my friend.
     
  10. Mvalentine King's Apprentice

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    if you love her as much as you say things'll work out...her boyfriend and her will break up sometime and when that happens take the chance and go for it