Well i dont normally do this but here it goes, Well Jessi and I been goin out for a 1year and 2months but we havnt been connectin lately and today on valentines day was suppose to be a cure for our relationship for us to connect. But we did not connect and we did not have any fun just sadness on our date. Well we ended breaking up and stay friends but we cryied so much when we discussed it but the relationship was hurting us both. Now i cant get any sleep and i miss her so much i just want to say i love her one last time. It hurts so much but i cant cause where not goin out anymore.
Just because you aren't going out anymore, doesn't mean you can't love her. I still love my ex. And just because you broke up doesn't mean you can't tell her.
i know but it will be harder to be friends cause i would have an urge to hold her like i was her bf and if i do that it might mess up our friendship then we wont be friends anymore so she would not be in my life that would be worse
Yeah, that's the problem with going from bf/gf to just friends. There will always be awkward moments and moments where you forget you broke up and act like you did before. My suggestion is to find someone else and try to start dating again.
I'm no good with helping with the people side of relationships (I'm 20 and never had a girlfriend), but I can tell you this - you sound like you're depressed. Whatever else you decide to do, I would say see a psychologist just to make sure you get to sleep at night.
If things didnt work out then things didnt work out. Sure it hurts but you just need to keep on moving forward in life and someone else will eventually come along and you will fall for her.
Relationships start off thriving and die at some point. They don't last forever, and sometimes you just have to let go.
Well hun it is only natural that you are feeling upset, afterall you were together for a very long time. It is always sad when a relationship breaks down, especially when you are young. I know it sounds like I am just spinning you a cliche but it does get easier with time. Since you only broke up very, very recently, it is going to be tough right now, but you both came to a mutual agreement and at this point in time you need to start the process of moving on. Obviously I am not suggesting you go jump into another girls pants, but take some time for yourself to get used to being just you again. Over a year is a long time to be part of a pair, being single again can take some getting used to again. Of course you will still love her, love isn't something you can switch off that easily. Telling her you still love her isn't such a bad thing, just don't push the friendship boundaries. Tell her one last time you love her and then put it behind you. Don't be afraid to cry hun, crying is actually good for helping to get over things. It is almost like the tears wash the pain out. Good luck =) Sadly for the majority of relationships this is very true.
