I'm really confused.

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  1. khhottie30 Twilight Town Denizen

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    I'm talking about my love life. Well, there's these 2 guys I like. They're both sweet, funny, and really good friends. BUT...they're both seniors, and I'm a freshman. Also, I don't even know if they'd even like someone like me. Not because I'm a freshman, but because I'm kinda fat and not the prettiest girl in the world. Still, just because I'm not the hottest girl in the world, it doesn't mean I don't have feelings and a heart. I really care about the people I love, and I'd do anything for them.

    But if they like me back, here's the big question: who should I choose? One's into sports, the other one's into music. And I'm into both.
     
  2. daxma Hei Long: Unrivalled under the Heavens

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    which do you like more music or sport?
    You are pretty, and your curvy aswell so thats also a plus.
    your a great person and they will see that in you.the only thing is who to choose and as i said above you just need to know which you like more.
    Well if it doesn't work out something good will happen.

    I got into a very bad situation with a girl and she really broke me with six very mean texts when i had done nothing to her.
    What happened was i turned to a friend of her friends and guess what, she's pretty,into anime,likes to play playstation 3,likes the same tv shows and likes the colour black just like me!!!

    luck favours the broken in my opinion because it can only get better.
     
  3. khhottie30 Twilight Town Denizen

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    Well, I saw them both a lot last semester. But now I only see the one that's into sports, and it's only in the mornings.
     
  4. daxma Hei Long: Unrivalled under the Heavens

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    well then put yourself forward so he knows your there.
    Matbe see what he's interested and ask him out to something
    both you and he would like.
     
  5. khhottie30 Twilight Town Denizen

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    I bet he wouldn't even notice me.

    Besides, I'm not sure if my parents would approve of him. Not because of the way he acts or anything (he's one of my close friends, and my dad and his dad are pals), but because of his age.

    Also, I'm too shy.
     
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    just ask and see what he says.no beating around the bush.
     
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    good.I know it's hard but it might pay off in the end.
     
  9. khhottie30 Twilight Town Denizen

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    I'm going to try and talk to him right now...
     
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    good luck then.
     
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    no problemo
     
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    Well the easy answer is you go with the one you think that you would get along with the most... I mean just becasue you have things in common with both of them doesnt make them both a good pick. You gotta go with the one that will make you the happiest in all aspects.
     
  14. Catch the Rain As the world falls down ♥

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    Truth^

    Just because you have a lot in common with a guy doesn't mean that he is the right one for you.

    Summer hun there is one thing I do have to say though.

    You have not long come out of quite a serious relationship, I personally would advise waiting a little bit before diving back in to the dating scene. Let your heart heal first and make sure you are ready first.