Ignored?

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  1. Rainbow~Monkey Gummi Ship Junkie

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    i ignore you? sorry. i dont know how, but im still sorry. Siamese sister dance!!! *does the dance* dance Kairi~Sora dance!!! LOL!!
     
  2. Fracture Sαlαmαndєr ™

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    i hate when that happens, my ex girlfriend did that exact same thing. I was talking to her a couple of days before we broke up, and i asked if anything was wrong, and she said no, but i knew there was. So the nex day i went up to her and personally asked her and she started walking away crying... so i was like okay????? After that, she gave me the silent treatment and i was starting to get mad, when i went out to get some things, i caught her kissing another guy. It broke my heart into many peices.

    I was so shocked i didn't know what to do, so i just walked away. She didn't try to stop me, call me, talk to me anything. So now all of her friends are giving me the silent treatment and giving me dirty glares.

    Sometimes people who have something to hide, try to ignore you and say away from you, and i don't hate you Rainbow~Monkey......
     
  3. Mike Chaser

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    I feel ignored all the time. xD
    It annoys me.
     
  4. blacknumbers Hollow Bastion Committee

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    I know EXACTLY how you feel.

    People do it all the time, and for the most part they don't know they are doing it. They are to busy talking to more popular people. Every time they do it, I feel sad. It makes me feel like they don't think I am cool enough.

    But I stay happy. If they don't want t to talk to me ever, then they aren't friends on my list.
     
  5. Snow Princess King's Apprentice

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    i think if you express your feelings in a neutral way to those around you, they will be able to listen and appreciate where youre coming from. right now it seems that they may not be able to understand you because of the difficulties you may be having in your personal life. if you want them to not ignore you, you will have to explain how you feel. otherwise, they cannot relate and therefore cannot talk to you at all. :D
     
  6. Arixik Traverse Town Homebody

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    I can cope with people ignoring me. It doesn't really affect me, at least I still have a very good friend of mine. She just tell me that it's a phase and it'll pass, most of the time it does.
    I'm fine being a loner, I'm not much of a conversation person anyways in real life. >.>;;


    I ignored a lot of people. A LOT. Most of them are just the people that did something wrong, I tell them off about what they did wrong, they fixed it, we got back together as friends. I'm more of a person who ignores others than the ignored one.
     
  7. Rainbow~Monkey Gummi Ship Junkie

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    I think its rude to ignore someone, though.
     
  8. childofturin Why?

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    It would be more rude to intrude on someone's life when they don't want you to (in my case, for instance).
     
  9. kitty_has_claws246 Traverse Town Homebody

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    I know that feeling. For 2 years I was so certain that these people were friends, but they always ignored me or left me out of things and wouldn't listen. It took for a little while to figure out that I was better off without them as friends then with them as friends. Once I cut those ties life started to get alot better and ironically enough, I'm on talking terms with some of those who ignored me at first.....wow, sry, I didn't mean that to be so long. But yeah,

    I get what you mean, it sux...yay for the interweb!!
     
  10. The Grim Heaper Destiny Islands Resident

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    I feel ignored a lot... But it's starting to get a little better for me. I think people are paying a little more attention to me. ^_^
     
  11. Rainbow~Monkey Gummi Ship Junkie

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    actually i wouldnt say more rude, just annoying.
    i think the mature person with concern for others would be polite and tell them politely to stop bothering them the first time, instead of ignoring them,
    but you make a good point.
     
  12. TheMagicalMisterMistoffelees Professional Crazy

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    Yeah, I feel that way. I know they're not ignoring me, but I like to wallow in my own self-pity. One of my many flaws.
     
  13. Bareri-San 私はポテトだ。

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    I know how it feels to get ignored, especially at school. It sucks when people just block you out when you try to be nice to them and they ignore you for god knows how long.
     
  14. Ryan Finesse Destiny Islands Resident

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    Your like me. I feel ignored, by my family and my friends.
    I'm talking to a friend, and when another person comes in, they turn their backs on me, ignore me, and talk about something else with that friend while I was talking.
     
  15. Inasuma "pumpkin"

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    Yeah. That is one of those feelings that sucks to receive, but really easy for others to misconstrew the way you're feeling. I have a situation now, in fact, where a girl kind of likes me but I just can't STAND it when she tries too hard. It's almost makes me too angry, because I have too much shame to say "hey, look, I know how you feel, but really I don't see you that way." I'm just not like that.

    But then when I really like someone, I get disappointed when they feel the way we all hate.
     
  16. kaseykockroach Hollow Bastion Committee

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    You know what would be hilarious? If this thread was ignored.
    Seriously though, as an anti-social kid in school, but a social kid on the net (a split-personality, if you will), I've never really gotten that feeling of insecurity.
     
  17. childofturin Why?

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    I'm kinda the same way. I guess it's because people actually listen to me here, yet almost everyone my own age I meet IRL is a shallow materialist. So, my entire social life is online, basically, with most of it on this site and ScrewTube.
     
  18. Crumpet In your shadow, I can shine!

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    When I feel ignored, it reminds me too much of last year and I feel upset, but if I have nothing to distract me also, I have the nightmare thoughts and completely lose it... so yes, I hate ignorers