Ignored?

Do you ever feel like your being ignored. Like people don't like you or something? Yeah, it hurts if their ignoring you, they can at least say that i'm bothering them instead of giving me the silent treatment. and no one really even knows me because im confused right now and life is rough. so..yeah..

 

i agree with the part where the people can say that they are bothering you instead of the silent treatment. i find the silent treatment alot more awkward.

 

Sometimes I wonder if I'm bothering people, or if they hate me, but they are too nice to say so. Often times, when people mention they think this about me, its not true. The silent treatment is really awkward, but people being fakely nice to you is a lot worse I think.

 

i think eveyone here hates me and they arent telling me the truth, they ignore me so now i know they were lying and a certain soemone on kh-vids (i dont want to mention there name) told me that we were friends forever cuz yeah and they were totally lying,ignoring me and such and yeah. *makes mad face*
now im mad..
and sad...
i took ther name out of my sig few days ago. ha! take that fake friend! :(

>_<

 

I get ignored all the time at School. I also hate the silent treatment.

And I don't hate you, Monkey!

 

That feeling is very distinct and very hurting when it happens. It happens a number of ways, but today I had that type of thing happen to me. I asked my friend (whom I recently dated, we are best friends) how she was, since I could tell she was upset today. She said fine, then tried to avoid it talking about how she was on the phone. So I told her, "No, I mean you." She continues to ignore the problem and not tell me, just trying to seemingly repress the information. I don't know what was going on, but as a very close friend to her, I felt badly about it.

Still, if you are being ignored, as bad as it may hurt, there is a reason for it. And I do acknowledge "not realizing they were ignoring you" as a reason. Shit happens.

 

Just show them you don't care, even if you do.

 

I think it's better to be ignored than to be actively hated or watched every second as a role model. I can do things when no one is watching (cuss at my comp for slowing down, etc) that I could never do if people cared enough to pry into my life. I like being ignored.

 

I think that is a very dangerous thought process. I'm not criticizing you or anything, but this is from experience.

That mind set of "I like being ignored" works for a long time. For me, it worked my entire middle school and most of high school. But eventually it needs to be refreshed. Every time you passively ignore your need to be "out there," you're storing up energy that, while small, will eventually reach a threshold and you'll feel its impacts. The reason that happens is because you are both unconsciously and consciously willing and unwilling to do it.

So, again, you may think that doing things when no one is watching is alright for now, but eventually it'll be exerted in some way when you reach the level of realization that the storing up won't work anymore.

It really isn't because it is wanted, rather, it has to be that way at some point. Sometimes that being ignored thing is okay, sometimes it isn't. The reason for that is because probably around the same time of that realization, another realization will come which might sound ridiculous, but it satisfies inner conflict, and that is that acting out rather than suppressing (or repressing, if that is what's done) is much easier. And that exchange in physical and verbal energy, and the feeling of connection with others largely overshadows the wanting to be ignored over simple things. Not because it is positive, but because you are just simply doing the action.

This is mostly me rambling... so I'm gonna not type anymore. lol

 

Well, for vast stretches of time, I am alone and ignored, and it is good. I do enjoy the company of my friend back home, either on the phone or in person, but he does tend to grate on my nerves after a while. Alone works for me, because among other things, I am not subjected to ridicule for my inane little SciFi/Fantasy stories I make up or for the things I do.

 

i agree with you there. i hate being ignored. especially if it's someone very dear to you.

 

She could be not telling you either because it hurts to think about, or she doesn't wanna complain, and wants to deal with it on her own. Anyway.........
I don't hate you Rainbow~Monkey! I'm sure that everyone here doesn't hate you. Maybe you might be fighting with some people....but that doesn't make everyone hate you! Just try to find who your true friends are, and stick with them.

 

I agree. I personally do not hold grudges, nore do I hate particular people. I hate ignorance, stupidity, greed, and sometimes arrogance. If a person (not anyone in particular, just a generic person) does not show those characteristics, then they can say whatever they want. I will have no problem with them.

 

It's all i feel lately.

 

I can't really say I remember experiencing the sensation.

I don't really make much of an effort to stand out, but I end up doing so a little due to things like my odd sitting habits and such.

I don't mind being ignored, but being noticed/having company is okay too.

 

I live that feeling.Do you ever get that feeling that everybody hates you? That theres not one person willing to touch you eithout harming you? Like your some kindscummy disease that has to be cured before you spread too far?

 

Yeah...Being ignored really sucks.

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If you're going to ignore someone, you should at least tell them what exactly they did wrong, why you're ignoring them and how/if they can fix it...​

 

Sometimes I feel like I am being ignored.If I skrew up doing something.And then someone wont talk to me for a while.But sometimes I feel that I did nothing wrong.It tends to piss me off.But I talk to the person,and I tell them..What's your deal dude?So I try to compromise.sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't.

 

*pats Sonic*
I know that feeling at times. It sucks. The thing is some people are hard to cooperate and judge you even if they don't even know you. Like in Rpgs for example and real life. I perfer to compromise as well not being ignored which I simply hate especially when they don't reply to your pms. Some people have different views on things. If they don't want to compromise it shows that they really don't care or often times they take it out on the next person who pisses them off. It shouldn't be personal, but people should talk and work things out and not give the silent treatment or the worse thing tell their friends about you.....

 

.........YOU ignore ME -_-
LOL, anyways, cha, i agree. i did that once. but my friend asked why so we HAD to answer. LOL, but she burst out crying!!!!!
sometimes i feel ignored. sometimes.