If you thought you weren't that great, chances are that society is to blame.

Discussion in 'The Spam Zone' started by Mike, Jun 3, 2012.

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  1. Hayabusa Venomous

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    Man I miss all the good debates :|
     
  2. Jube Formerly Chuck's

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  3. Hiro ✩ Guardian

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    I'm well aware, I just don't think it's wrong that the guy gives his opinion but... Wells, I guess you're right.
    Just ignore him if you don't want to deal with it. I did that and it worked.

    Not all of us need it just because we can't take advice well, you think we do and if you want to, that's fine, but you shouldn't go off and say stuff, because you don't know what's been going on. Your words could hurt someone and push them over the edge, leading to something drastic.

    And here's some advice for you. I read this and your pretty much saying "I don't like you, here's a list so that I will." I'm not attacking you cuz you aren't a bad guy, I'm just saying what I feel. Both of you have your own opinions, which are neither right nor wrong. What is wrong is your ways of dealing with it. Giving UNWANTED and UNASKED for advice isn't nessesery, but if following the one that tells you to word your threads carefully is whats needed, then it might be a good idea to follow that advice.
     
  4. Agent.T Destiny Islands Resident

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    Peace people! Please don't argue...Really your opinions differ..And no matter how much you guys argue over it you're not gonna make the other change his mind. Neither of you are right, neither of you are wrong, that's what it means to have an opinions...We all believe different things for different reasons and trying to accept that is a part of life :)

    Mike created a "Pick-me-up" thread, something to make people smile....Makase was simply trying to breath his opinions into the thread, ot to cause trouble or strike up a debate, neither of you tried to do anything wrong so try to keep the peace ^_^
     
  5. Mr. Pumpkin Hollow Bastion Committee

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    If I didn't comment on this thread, this wouldn't have escalated further. I feel good.
     
  6. Makaze Some kind of mercenary

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    I am willing to take that risk because I am not being hostile.

    That is incorrect. Those pieces of advice are genuine, and I was actually trying to be helpful. I am not posting because I dislike him, I am posting because I dislike his actions in this thread. I would dislike them in anyone, he is not a specific target. His thread turned out a way that he did not like, and I peacefully gave some pointers on how to avoid this kind of thing later on.

    The problem with Mike's assertion is that he believes that his intentions absolve him of being responsible for what he actually did, therefore he does not need to be advised; he did not nothing wrong or inefficient if he did not mean to.

    The problem with yours is that you think that my intention somehow changes whether or not the words I said are valid.

    Both of you take intention as more important than result. That is foolish because no matter what Mike or I intended, the words we each said do not change.

    If you think that I should not give advice when unasked, then you should also apply that to Mike, who made a thread in order to spread advice when he was unasked. Someone who is willing to give advice must be able to receive it himself, or else he becomes a hypocrite.
     
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    It's over. I'm tired of seeing this thread now.
     
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