You guys prob remember me from that really sad girlfriend post...well I need help again... Same girl, different story... She's still in my life and I still like her and for 3-4 months I thought we were getting some where...then as soon as I leave town she goes into a relationship with someone else...I try to move on and even ask her advice about it (probably a mistake), but even then I can't seem to get anywhere...and sometimes it still seems like she likes me, but even if she does I can't take her seriously...especially since she's engaged now... I should just ignore her when she seems to be flirting with me, right? Like it's my mind playing tricks on me... Please, I know this is probably in the wrong place but I could really use help...
Yeah, um, if she's engaged now, then the best thing you can do is just forget about her. There is no way you can be with her now, so just give up and move on. Move away if you have to.
engaged? first off *hugs in non-awkward way* second, leave her in Hakunamatata. third........um, she's messing with you and you know that. so ignore her.
those were my thoughts exactly. if she cant wait for you when your gone and wander off with another then its time to move. im sure youll find someone better than her. i know its gonna take sometime ( believe me ive been there) but its what has to be done. youll get stronger from this experience as i have.
Thanks guys...you're right...I was hopping maybe just once she would change and maybe some day she will...but this is a clear sign that she's not willing to do the same things for me that I'm willing to do for her...she's a lost cause...I just wish I would've seen that a long time ago...I feel so stupid now though for not seeing this for what it really was... Don't worry dude, that was just meant for the title to get ur attention...worked huh?...
Moving on takes a lot of time and effort, but it is worth it. By moving on you can be happy again. by moving on, you can find the next girl. If you don't move on you will be swallowed in your own grief. I will eat you alive and spit out your bones. It's time to move on. put forth the effort. Be happy again. Don't you deserve that?
