I gotz a problem

I got a problem.

So my friend used to like this one guy, and now they are dating.

But now, she doesnt like him anymore, she really likes some one else.

So, shes been avoiding her BF. But hes sending all of these messages like "I love you, and I miss you."

But she wants to break up with him.

What should she do? She wants to be nice while doing it.

 

There's no nice way to do it really. Either she can tell him that she's breaking up with him for someone else, or she break up with him due to the fact that she doesn't think he's of interest anymore. If she goes with the second one though he'll realize that she broke up with him for someone else since it will be somewhat peculiar that she starts dating another guy immediately afterwards, and it will just be worse because he'll know she didn't tell him. I'd say first is a preference, but blah.

 

Go for the classic phrase:
"It's not you... it's me."

Lawl... perfection.

 

Ya, she wants me to break up them up for her. Im like "um......"
Humm... what to do what to do..

 

Um, no. :\

That will just set her worse in his eyes. Plus, it's her problem. Not yours.

 

This is her response to that

" yes but thats not gonna work because its him not me"

Im like "THATS NOT THE POINT!" *slaps self*

I told her that. ANd then she looked at me like I was an idiot.

 

Have her say: "Sorry, we're breaking up." Simple? Yes.

 

I know this may sound awful but...
She should just get it over and done with. If she waits longer she will feel more guilt and may even end up cheating.
Like Alice said: there isn't a real nice way to do it.

 

No!
no no no no no no no no no no no....
NO!
You do not tell your friend's BF that she wants to break up... major "no no!"
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Others thing you can do... When your friend will not get off the phone with him... you take the phone and hang up for her. >:3
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Tell her she needs to think of a way herself... but put it nicer than I did.

 

Um, yeah. That's not really relevant. X3

It isn't your relationship. Whether it's his fault or hers, that doesn't put the situation on your shoulders. If she really wants to pursue it she can quite easily do it herself.

 

I got it!

~Txt Msg Brkup~

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XcidD2HFK8M

Not nice... but easy!
XD

 

Kelly videos never get old. X3

Oh, and NOOOOO.

 

now she wants to know if she should do it over AIM, Gmail, Email, Telephone, In person (this might be hard cause we're out of school)

God shes driving me crazy right now

 

Well...
>_>
<_<

The nicest way would to do it in person... not the easiest though.

 

but she cant...

Shes decided that shes gonna do it by gmail.

God, this isnt going to turn out good... *goes and hides*

 

So far, people from the female persuation have been giving you advice in this thread. Let me, a male, give you some advice. If your friend wants to break up with this young gentleman, than she should just come out and say it, because if she feels this way, it's not real love. If he gets hurt (which I doubt) than he really had fealings for her, if he dosent realy care, he didn't really like her. Why do young people these days rush into realationships these days anyway? It's not real love.

 

See this guy though...is sorta sensitve....

YAY!! A GUYS ADVICE!!!!!

She broke up with him through gmail...I feel bad for letting her do a txt message break up sorta thing..cause she told him, said im sorry, and then she blocked him...