I don't understand...

Lol, I know the feelen. Idk why, but a hobby of mine is helpen people. Makes life better for everyone if you help them out, even if it is the little things, cuz when you do somethen nice, then it tends to catch on.


But anyways, I don't think there is anything else to cover with the situation. Does anyone beg to differ?

 

Tell them to buzz off. If you have a problem you need to tell them. If you already tried that then it's time for adults to intervene there's no problem with adults trying to help I mean that's who I go to if I have a problem with someone and I want them to stop.

Unless you want to be pushed around I suggest you contact an adult. They know how to handle things. Your friends may not have as much wisdom as an adult yet.

 

But guys there's also a reason why I had to post this thread. It's CONSTANT! I am so tired of this always happening. I don't know what to resort to. Thanks for the advice anyhow.

 

yeah, when its constant , there certainly is a breaking point.

for now you should try daxma's advice, and see how that goes.

but i hope your problem gets solved.

our just insult them

like if they poke you with their pens..you could say.

"why dont you shove that (insert curse here)up your....."

you know things like that.

 

Actually, I would not do what Daxma suggested as it is aggressive and could be taken as hostile and make you seem more anti-social. Instead, if they play around and throw pencils at you, throw a couple back at them and smile earnestly. Take it light hearted. If you see that they say compliments to you and the next day they are messing with you, and you believe that the compliments were genuine, they may just want you to come out of your shell more and have some fun.

Try talking with them some and asking 'what's up?' and 'how's your day going?' if you can. If they do things that bug you say 'hey, man, that isn't cool. Lay off that, ok?". Be calm and try to have a pleasant demeanor as they seem to just be testing things and they may actually be harmless.

However, if you notice that they become more aggressive and rotten to you after this, then you may actually have to tell them to 'back off' and move around them. Most often I've found with these sorts that actually are 'kind of bullying' and yet 'kind of not bullying' that they are just goofing around and yet want to make friends. If you try the first idea here and find that they aren't just bullying to bully, then you will have made some friends. If they start to become utter @sses, you know that now too and can follow up accordingly with telling them to back off and if they don't, keep calm and don't 'ignore' them but also don't give in to their antics that are meant to tick you off. If one of them actually laid a hand on you, that's different but if you use your wit against theirs if they want to be lame, you come out looking all the better. Hope this helped, because sometimes these sorts of people aren't all that bad and I've made friends with some or found out their true colors by just being amiable, ironically. I tend to save my brutal side for those who deserve it.

 

I don't know about throwing the pencils back at 'em, Repliku. Depending on where he's sitting in class, the teacher's more likely to spot him doing that back than the first incident. Which is sometimes the case; they don't spot the cause, just the effect. That's how it was when I was in school, and what my brother's doing now.

Instead, if they throw a pencil at ya, pick it up, and say something like "Thanks. I broke the tip on my other one." If they poke you in the back with a pen, play like your back itches or something. Kill 'em with kindness, that's the best way of dealing with it. Don't get physical and fight back, a lot of schools don't care who starts a fight and will discipline all involved. I had that happen once; a girl punched me in the eye and I put my hands up to shield my face before she did it again, and she went home and said I punched her. She got a week of out-of-school suspension, I got one day in-house for "laying my hands on her". Just be careful.

 

Yeah, this is true. I just meant if it wasn't going to hurt the person and would be taken as a joke. But yeah, there are other ways to do it like taking the pencils too and using them heh. I just meant in the end to try acting light hearted about it and joke back. They may receive it well unless they really are intentionally wanting to hurt others and it lets you know which side of the fence they are on.

 

Hey guys, I am starting to get along with them better. I think I might've come out of my shell more like Repliku said.

 

Repliku is usually the one to point us in the right direction.