Well...theres this boy in my class in school...everyone says that he likes me....i dont think he does...but..i think I like Him now. I dont get it though, i just dont know what im feeling...i get this weird feeling when im around him...i get butterflies why he holds my hand or huggs me. my friends dont like him...so when someone says he likes me...thats why i deny it. See...he's not nice looking...but he makes me laugh and he's a really good friend to me...but i dont know if thats all he is. a friend. or is he more than that to me? He's so sweet and i dont want to mess things up with us. i just dont get how i feel about him...do i like him? do i not? im kinda of worried that if i do like him and i tell my friends,im worried about what they'll say if i ask him out,i mean they really hate him for some reason... i just dont know anymore...should i take the risk and say 'Yeah,i really like him' i mean last night i had a dream i married him! not that he knows that...or do i say 'No,we're just friends.' help me please! and sorry if this is in the wrong section...
Awww~ Sounds so sweet. x3 I think you like him. And if you do, you shouldn't be concerned about what your friends think. He sounds like a genuine, sweet guy and looks shouldn't matter! You should ask your friends exactly WHY they hate him though. Maybe he did something. If it's for no reason, then you should totally admit you like him. :D If you don't like him, maybe you guys are just really good friends. :3 Anyways...Hope I helped. Good luck~
He is sweet and everything. i actually have asked my friends why they dont like him, they said theres no reason...they just dont like him.
It sounds like you like him, which can be nice :D. Your friends, and I hate to say this, but they sound a little jealous. If they won't tell you why they don't like him, or even have a gut feeling about him, it could be jealousy. The risky thing is....he might like you back, or he might just want to be friends. I don't really know what to say about that, cause telling him how you feel might twist your relationship with him, but if he likes you back.....its fifty fifty risk, and I don't want to tell you what to do....but if it were me, I would tell him how i felt.
He likes you for definate and do you know how i know? because i was in that boys position. I guess he keeps saying your only friends and so do you, if you ask him something he'll try and do it for you if he can, people take the piss out of him because they see him liking you.He likes you back so go for it.
That's not a reason. xD I really suggest you tell him how you feel. If your friends are good friends, they'll stay by your side whether they like him or not. :D:
Your friends may be valuable to you...But if your valuable to them they'll understand. They won't enjoy his company but they'll be with you...Most likely when he's not around so much though. But no matter what don't let your friends interfere with your decision. Trust me I've seen this kinda thing happen so much. If yu HONESTLY need to to then just ask him out but keep it quiet.
Sweetie pie, I think we all go through this at least one point during high school or middle school. I went through this and HELL im STILL going through this. You most definitely have a crush on this boy. Though I do want you to honor the opinions of your friends. Why dont they like him? If they dont like him because hes "Different" then they need to get over that. **** that. But if they have a legit reason for not liking him, you need to take that into account. Ask them to explain it to you, they may know something about this boy that you dont. Good friends know best a lot of the time. If they have a reason ;) I know the feeling where you like someone so much as a friend you cant help but wonder if you like them more then that. And going along with that you dont want that awkwardness if you ask them and they well...turn you down. I ended up telling the guy (kind of) and he turned me down. There is that awkwardness now but we try to forget it most of the time and go on as friends. If you are good friends then you both realize how much you need each other even if its not in that relationship kind of way, and the awkwardness will go away and you can play around each other again. And sweetie, when if comes down to it, sometimes the feeling of liking someone doesnt go away. For me its been there for about four months and shows no sign of going away. And you can either keep it all inside and just hurt yourself or you can get it out in the open. If he really is your friend even if he doesnt like you like that, he will still be good friends with you I cant tell if you are most worried about him finding out or what your friends will think. If they are your good friends then they WILL understand, they might confront you about your decision and ask if thats what you REALLY want :/ But if they realize you like this guy then if they are good friends they will back off. Going back that is a little confusing to read, but if you have any questions feel free to PM me dear <3 Good luck.
It took three friends for me to get to even hint that I like him <3 Its okay to feel scared about telling him. Personally I dont like telling people over MSN but thats just my personal opinin, you definitely want to tell him when its just you in him, so MSN might be the right choice <3 You will be fine dearie.
You guys seem like friends, and alot of good relationships build from friendships. You most definetly like this boy as more than a friend. As for your friends, 'We just don't like him' does not clarify as a good enough answer or reason. Try to talk to them about what they would do, should you start dating this guy. Lifes full of risks, and this is one you'll need to take. If he turns you down, keep your head high, don't let it get straight to you, and make sure you know that it's his loss. Hope it helps... As for 'He's on MSN right now...I'm scared' Just tell him! I know the feeling when you see a boy you like sign on, the butterflies in your stomach. Like I said before, take the risk and tell him!
I think you should tell him, those friends of yours shouldn't think any different of you, if you like someone that they don't like. I'm going to have to say, if they cannot accept it, they are not really your friends. Friends should support you.
yeah you probably like him, but it's your call on what to do here. whether or not he likes you.... well I would need to know more about how he acts. many, but not all guys, tease girls that they like. depending on the guy, they will do this in different ways. some guys will tease them in more a more joking fashion while others will be more towards the mean side. but teasing alone doesn't really tell you anything. does he try to get your attention by doing stupid things in order to make you laugh? that is usually a sign. the guys that are more on the shy side usually tend to make it less noticeable. they usually try to be really sweet and kind to a girl that they like. unfortunately, these guys usually are overlooked by girls.... or that's usually how they feel. unfortunately, I fall into this category **releases a big sigh**. but whatever...... back on topic..... yeah it definitely sounds like you like him, you just need to know if he likes you.
well today...a friend of mine who actually likes the guy i like, said something about a guy liking me...and because i told her i liked the guy before she told me...i thought she was talking about him....yeah...turns out she wasnt talking about the same guy.... she said that this guy it sit next to in maths really likes me....and said maybe i should give him a chance...but i said no because i liked the other one and the that likes me is just a friend...but i feel bad for him now...he barely spoke to me in maths... but when i found out that she wasnt talking about the one i like, i felt like my heart had i dunno...become heavier or something...it actually hurt me that she wasnt talking about the one i like...i still havent told him...she says she'd speak to him for me...but i dont know...it still hurts...i dont think i have a chance with him really...
you never know till you try. I told this story before on this forum so I'm going to make it very quick. there was this girl that I really liked but I never said anything to her cause I always thought she was too good for me. Well Last semester I started spending a lot of time with her, and things seemed to be going well. so I decided that I was going to tell her soon. unfortunately, I told her but not in the way I would have liked to have told her. She did something really bad one time when I was hanging out with her and she ended up braking my heart. when I spoke to her about it and how mad I was with her for doing it, that was when I told her I liked her. I learned that she liked me too, but unfortunately the damage was done, as I am with her. I still have feelings for her, but I know better than to hangout with her. The point is, I can't help wondering what would have happened if I said something sooner. If you don't take advantage of the now, then you may regret what happens after then. just ask. or maybe don't ask, just drop a few hints.
