Okay I have Wood Work Theory once a week and one day I forgot my homework-I got lines and I was kinda like "Yeah Okay-I kinda Deserve it" but while he is writing out what I had to originally had to write which was "I have wood work Theory only one a week-Homework inst to much to ask" he looks me up and down-Acknowledges the clothes im wearing-Scribbles out what I was to write and replaces it with "I will learn to act in a normal manner"-I just kinda laughed at it-But then at lunch someone asked me about it and I just kinda said "I know im weird but Im not that bad" with a smile then everyones all like "Oh but that's what we love about you" and "I wouldn't say weird-Different is a better word!" and then it really got to me-We (Me and a few of my friends) were discussing it in the library and I just suddenly got really upset about it-I actually stormed out of the library on the verge of tears (And believe when I sat-I NEVER cry) one of my friends follows me while I cry in the school car park and then I just say "**** it-Im going home" so I gave my friend a hug--Thanked him for trying to comfort me and I cycled home... I havent seen that teacher since (And im on mid-term so im not gonna for about two weeks) But when I see him I might actually scare the **** out of him with the abuse im gonna spit at him-So does anyone know what I should do??
Well firstly calm yourself down. Reacting with abuse won't help you solve anything, it will actually land you in more trouble and could potentially get you expelled. What I would do is talk to your mother about it, and maybe take it to a higher member of staff in the school. Whilst it would be out of order for you to react negatively and cause a huge abusive scene, it was also out of order for your teacher to do what he did. React calmly and think about what you're doing and you will come off looking like the mature one which will put you in much higher standing.
Face him. If he embarresses you more,try talking at the end of class when you can talk to him alone or just try to talk to him alone. I know it's tough believe me but by not saying anything at all he's gonna think you weren't offend it by it. So then it will build up by talking to him and saying that really hurt and just explaining. When my teacher teased me (sophomore year I'm a juinor) about the PDA's with my bf and how I seem easy I missed school cause I thought I was a sl()t until my teacher told me he was teasing. Teachers dunno when they hurt your feelings unless you like make it obiviously like crying or something. I don't think you wanna cry in front of the class. That's worse but teachers they try to help and if not get the counsler and go from there. Go it memorized? Lol
Okay-I did forget to mention two things-First of-After he gave me the lines I asked "Sir,What exactly do you mean by normal?" he replied "Like everyone else." I suddenly snapped,Without really thinking about it "What so im Weird,Is that it?" and he avoided the question. and I did infact talk to my mum but she said she couldnt really do anything on a count of the fact that she ws alredy at the school about the teacher that called me Emo (I have a tread on it) and if she goes there again it will make us both look bad-_-
Ok, really you should have included that in your initial post. Maybe you should look into going to another school you know? It sounds like the one you are at isn't really all that awesome. However, from this thread and a few others I have seen, I would seriously suggest learning to not be so sensitive. I know it seems as though the world is out to get you lately, but I can assure you it isn't. Whatever happens I hope it gets resolved fast.
