I absolutely HATE to be pathetic, but...

I'm completely have an emotional breakdown.

You know that "first love" you have? Yeah, well, she's just finished telling me about how nothing's gunna happen and how we're not really in love. After almost a year and a half. It's just done. Ended. Gone. Out the window, never to be found again.

 

Your not being pathetic, like you said you only have one first love and she/he will always be special. But I will have to say it's really a good thing she broke up with you, I mean it's sad to have to lose her but would you rather lose her or continue a relationship where your both not as happy as you should be?

 

Well ****. Same position over here. I cried for a good solid 2-3 weeks before I could even STAND talking again. Idk the circumstances of the situation, but you might be fortunate enough to have her come back to you at some point. I sure as hell wasn't. Certainly depends on the girl, but 90% of the girls these days do this and come back after they have some time for a "break." In any case, just take each moment as it is and just hope for a better tomorrow. Don't over do the hope though. Like don't get obsessed with her or when she'll come back, if ever. Always on MSN if you wanna add me or talk, bro. Just chill and take every moment as it is. (:

 

I cant say I've been in this exact situation, but the solution to your problem is your friends. As corny as that sounds, its true.

This pretty much happened to me earlier this year, and of all the things I can remember about the terrible experience was that my friends helped me through it. Being by yourself during times like these is border line painful. Im not implying that I was suicidal or you're suicidal or anything like that, I'm saying that usually when you're alone its hard to think of anything else to do...in fact all you might do is think about what could have been, or what could have gone differently, and sticking to the past never helps.

Secondly, find something to do. When I was pretty down about my relationship issues, I signed up for my school play. All the time it took to rehearse and what not got my mind off of them for the most part.