Hurt feelings....

Discussion in 'Help with Life' started by Flyn Pnut, Jun 27, 2009.

  1. Flyn Pnut Banned

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    Hey, this is really making me feel bad, and I just wanted some reasuring... Well, last night, I had a sleep-over. Me, Alex, Jessy, and Issey. We were watching a film, and messing about, then this...

    Alex: Why did she scream
    Me: I DID IT BECAUSE I STOLE HE-
    Alex: She screamed because your so ugly!
    Jessy: Yeah, you are ugly Zack.

    It made me feel sad, it's really hurt-ful when people do this, some may say I'm over reacting, but, I'm not....

    Any help? :'(
     
  2. xXRhian+RoxasXx Gummi Ship Junkie

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    Tell them that what they said hurt your feelings and how much.
     
  3. Shadox D. Twilight Town Denizen

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    i say just dont talk to them for a day or two so you can cool down, then after that, talk to them about how that made you feel.....thats all i got......

    but im so sorry!!!!! :'(
    i know how you feel.......
     
  4. Johnny Bravo Chaser

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    Sounds to me like they are just playing with you, alot of friends just mess around and try to get on your nerves, just ignore it

    BTW, you have a cool name there Zack (and not just because its my name or anything....)
     
  5. Shadox D. Twilight Town Denizen

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    youre name is Zack, Apoligetix?


    both of you guys have a really cool name!!!!


    btw......i forgot to hug u....*hugs Flyn Pnut*
     
  6. Flyn Pnut Banned

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    I don't know...
    They could of been joking, or they couldn't.....

    And yeah, OUR NAME ROCKS!
     
  7. Rhoppergaurd Banned

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    Hey,Don't worry,You are Never gonna be ugly...because im your brother!

    ;)
     
  8. krayzie Lionhart

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    lol yeah its a cool name
    and u should have said: ur ugly
    anyways friends usually say that jokin and who cares
    some people think ur ugly and some think ur good lookin and thats the way it is
     
  9. kitty_mckechnie I want to hug you like big fuzzy Siberian bear!

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    You remind me of swordser. xD
     
  10. Kites Chaser

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    My friends and I do this to eachother all the time and we know we're just joking around.

    Anyway, if it bothered you that much I'd tell them how you felt about it. If they're your friends they'd understand.
     
  11. Daenerys Targaryen ok

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    Eh-
    You know...Just get over it.
    People say bitchy things all the time for no reason.
    Every knock is a boost.
    +Make yourself look superior to them by not caring,because that's what they want;for you to get pissed.
     
  12. Jayn

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    It sounds like they were just joking. If it hurt your feelings though, you should stand up for yourself. :3
     
  13. MSUK Twilight Town Denizen

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    At your own sleepover?

    Damn. Some friends.
     
  14. Misty gimme kiss

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    If that hurt your feelings you need to grow a bit of a thicker skin. It sounds like friendly banter, a lot of friends make fun of each other in this way. It's just joking around. If it really bothers you then ask them to stop, but I doubt it was their intention to upset you. Laugh it off, shrug it off, make a comeback or whatever.
     
  15. Flyn Pnut Banned

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    Fair enough, but I don't have much self-confidence in my looks, so this just makes me feel worse :'(
     
  16. Cleopatra King's Apprentice

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    There's not much you can do there. +you have one of my favourite names for guys *hugs* so I wouldn't worry. I don't think they were trying to hurt your feelings, but as said before, ignore/laugh/shrug it off/ make an awesome comeback/. As for your looks, only you can help yourself get through that issue, try not to worry too much though, it'll only make you feel worse.
     
  17. Flyn Pnut Banned

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    People say I'm handsome often, one girl said I'm a pretty boy O.o.....
    But I'm just not confident.

    And, yeah, people always <3 my name.
     
  18. Tahno The official Charlie Sheen of Republic City.

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    A solution to your problem could be telling them how they hurt you. however, in my opinion, i think they were honestly joking.

    I do know how you feel though.