How do you get over people?

i really like this girl n she used to like me but now she doesnt :(
i was wondering whether ne1 knew ne good techniques on how 2 get over ppl cos im really upset nd i just cant stop thinking about her.
also it kinda makes the situation worse becos my best friend is goin out with her now nd theyre kissin n stuff near me. AAAARRGH
i need help plzzzz
plz reply

 

Simple. You don't. Life is all about taking life's experiences, the good and the bad, holding it against your chest and keep marching forward. Yeah, you might have feelings for her, but just find someone else. Your mental wounds will heal over time leaving scars, but at least you'll know that you have a chance with someone else now.

 

Just let go. She's obviousely moved on, why should you stay and rot in the gutter ?

So it takes time, but it's definitely worth it, you'll eventually end up find someone much better, if you go out and live and have fun (or at least try) that is :3.

I know, it's not easy, at all, but it's so definitely worth it.

And just don't go find someone, to find someone to replace her. It's got to be someone you like, not just someone to replace her, then you'll just end up hurting yourself and the other person.

Good luck ;D

 

You're lucky actually. You're the only one being upset about this particular problem, so no one else is affected by it. So you just don't think sbout it.
To make it more clear to you, think what would happen if things were reversed. Supposing you dumped her, she is the one to be upset, and you made her sad. What you did affected her, but not you.
So you can understand that there is no need to have a problem.

 

U never Know If sometime she would dump ur best friend, but until then find a new girl and be with her.

 

look at this as a good thing, because you now know her true feelings towards you, and you can move on. Sure it's going to suck for the first little while whenever you hang out with her and your friend, but as long as you can realize that not everything always gets the happy ending and that you are better off now and can accept these lessons in life, then there should be nothing holding you back from moving on.

Plus if she and him break up you can tell him I told you so. jk

 

it takes a lot of time to get completly over someone it took me about half a year ;_;

 

Tell your friend that its bothering you and he needs to do things like that somewhere else,if he knows that you once liked her then he's just being an ass now.

Then,all you need to do is let her go,avoid her,dont even look at her.Just hang out with friends and forget about all that drama.

 

Kill them both.

 

Getting over people takes time. You can't really try to get over it, it just makes it worse. Just meet new people and try to not obsess over what you don't have anymore. It doesn't do any good. Eventually, you'll get over it (probably).

Sorry that advice wasn't too happy or cheerful D=

 

HAHAHAHAAHAHA!!!
HAHAHA ZOMG!!!!
THAT IS AMAZING!!!!!

this is a really serious problem, and then u come and have a laugh about it.
its just amazing.
you've really made my day.
thanks

 

Getting over someone? Hmm for me it's kinda easy.

I mean I'm tall so i get that little boost, which helps when getting over someone.

I of course ask them to crouch down, since it would be fairly hard to jump over 5ft, my record is only 3ft 9 on a good day.

I like to get a bit of a running start first, so i get enough distance between us and start to dash at the person in topic, when i'm around 8 inches behind them i crouch and jump as high as possible making sure to get good distance of course.

Once i get over the person i stretch my legs back down again and hit the ground, bending my legs of course to avoid injury.


Hope that helped.

 

anything else section ? no spam ?
still lol <_>

 

Hey, I never laughed. You shouldn't assume things. I was being serious, yo.

 

There's no way to top that response, so I'm not going to try. Anyway, all I can recomend is just to keep on going and try to not worry about it. Eventually you'll get over her somehow so just try to have fun doing something other than thinking about her. Oh, and I'd recomend yelling at your friend about it too. If he didn't know you liked her then just say it's getting annoying.

 

Don't get your hopes up but could it be possible she's trying to get you jealous?!? Otherwise just think about it this way there is a reason why you 2 aren't meant to be together if you were to go out with her something could go wrong (doesn't always work).

Try to move on I just lost a girl that I like and she used to like me as well but she's moved on so I'm also moving on...

Does ur best friend know?

 

It seems like you just have this crush on a girl and she decided she didn't on you now and your friend went out with her and that's that. It sucks, but this kind of thing happens. I'd suggest you try to not let yourself get hung up over a girl that it doesn't even seem that you really went out with. If you thought she was nice and all before, there were possibly qualities about her that made her a friend? If so, try to have her as a friend.

Rejection and stuff is part of life. It's one of the hardest lessons to learn and unless someone is a total jerk, most people don't mean to hurt anyone, but the interest just isn't there. Would you want to go out with a girl you had no interest in concerning attraction just because she liked you a lot? Probably not unless you were desperate or felt a lot of sympathy to the person, and those aren't the right reasons to get in a relationship.

Her feelings may one day change but I wouldn't worry about it too much if you can help it. You are young and there are other nice girls out there so if you keep your head up high and maintain self-confidence, you'll find a girl that will have mutual feelings and reciprocate it. That's what you really want. It's just a crush if it's a one way thing so I wouldn't spend too much time on her and instead go do some other things and try to enjoy what else life has to offer.

Of course, saying that is one thing, and if you can't feel that yet, it's a matter of convincing the heart with the mind, which may take some time. As I said and others mentioned, it does hurt but sadly, mutual feelings between two people don't always happen and it doesn't make either of you bad for it. I hope you feel better soon.

 

:O
WOW


all i can say is i wasnt actually rejected

thing is...it DOES work with us.
and other ppl have said so.

nd my best friend duz know