Help with Life

Boy, people can't tell a Greek from a Middle Eastern person. That should earn you some laughs right there, of course if it wasn't for the fact you could have hurt yourself. Middle Eastern people also...of course aren't terrorists. It's a group of people that are and well, prejudice in simple sucks.

I would ask your friend the proper way of doing pointe so that you know and well, you might want to tell people that you are Greek, or at least tell them off for thinking you are a terrorist. I think though you might want to examine your friendship too and think if this girl is just trying to worry you or not because some people love drama. If she's sincere on things, someone is obviously spreading rumors about you and you can get them dismissed by telling the truth to people and bit by bit that word will get around and they will stop being so ignorant. If the class though really is bugging you, perhaps you'd be able to find a less biased one to learn ballet at? Maybe not since I don't know how populated your area is. I hope things get better for you and sometimes we all just need to accept that there are some dumb asses in this world. :/

 

Yeah, I'll take that. Though, going to any other school wont make a difference. Dancers are racist b*tches

O_o. GOD! I hope u werent serious!

Thankyou! Repliku gets the award for best advice! No offence Diamond Angel!l ol. Seriously guys though thanx.

 

Nah. If it turned out that way, everyone except you gets to feel awkward, and are left lying out in the open to be given a good verbal roasting, or a tongue lashing. Then no one will dare push their prejudices on you. If you just talk, you are the one left out in the open for a verbal beating. "Oh, hello teacher, nice day. By the way, do you think I am a terrorist?"

Meh, I'm rambling, and only half serious. Then again, laughter is the miracle cure, especially for Help with Life problems.

 

Heh, thanks. I dunno. I was in an awful state of mind but I'm feeling better I guess. I can't go live with my brother anyway because taking a plane from Texas to Oregon is quite a bit of money and all of my money got stolen. I have started cutting myself again though, and I hate doing it, but I can't really stop. That makes me seem crazy... but yeah. I dunno, I guess all I can do for now is keep writing songs because I'm going into the studio soon to record. I suppose that's the only good thing to come from this.

On an unrelated note, sometimes I get really lightheaded and I start shaking uncontrollably. Does anyone know what can cause that? Um... I don't know of any illness in my family except for Diabetes. Could that cause it?

 

Please stop cutting yourself and call the police or suicide hotline or something to get yourself some help. I implore you if you cannot stop, do that before you seriously get messed up. In the end, even if you don't hurt yourself too badly, those scars are going to be really sucky to live with and look back on. It's not really fun to explain to someone later who might be interested in you that you spent your teenage years cutting or telling their parents why you have those scars. Think about this because it -does- affect you down the road and you are not always going to be stuck with this family situation. You however, could carry these crummy scars around with you that force you to always have to look back. It's not fun. I have enough from child abuse and hate explaining them.

On the other condition though, part of that could be anxiety, panic attacks or stress. It could also be from cutting yourself and you are wearing out your body's defenses as it has to cure these wounds and you may be getting these wounds infected with what you are using. I don't suppose you'd be using hydrogen peroxide to clean whatever you are using so infection is a likely candidate. Another reason to quit that *hint hint*. However, to give you advice otherwise, it could also be another health related issue with the blood and deficiency. Maybe it is a sign of diabetes, but seems more likely to me at the moment that the symptoms match more up with anemia, which is a lack of iron in the blood. You may need more iron or potassium in your diet. Iron can be from meats and vegetables as well as multi-vitamins and it is essential. Potassium can be found in milk, bananas and potatoes and may also be what you are short on. Try seeing if trying out some of these foods might help you feel better. Also, if you drink too much caffeine you may want to try drinking a bit more water and take in less salty carbohydrate foods. Hope that helps and yeah, sorry to bug you on this cutting thing but I don't want to see you throw your life away. Be careful, whatever you do.

 

Hey CHerry! So you're feeling down now? Wow. So the problem is because of your brother? Is he younger or older?

 

I'm glad to respond.Carla, i think that you should start listening to Linkin Park or Three Days Grace more often because it's like they are expressing your anger and energy and it will all flow out of you.

 

My best friend is incredibly pissed at me. What should I do?

Shes my only friend, and i have trouble making new ones.

 

Please explain. I would like to know the situation.

 

I actualy dont know why shes made at me.

 

Well go ask her then. Then I want you to come back here and post or PM me. Okay?

 

I was where you are once. It sucked, I thought about some dumb things and cut myself once. Don't do it though. It's not worth anything. You should stand up and be proud. You should get more aggressive with them and show them that you ARE NOT a pile of afterleavings. (With out any fighthing, maybe some yelling and screaming :D)

 

ok

im not that kind of person, sorry. thnx for the help though.

On an unrelated topic, if anyone has a Darkrai, ill trade my Empoleon and Lucario for it. does not need to be a legitimate Darkrai.

 

Okay I want you to pm it to me instead since I gotta go now. Later! I'll try to help you later so leave me a message.

 

glad to help.

if you have to lock yourself in the room do so, for a while.

but try and do constructive things, like putting some music and dancing to it.

or write, something that will help you blow off steam, without hurting anyone.

i think more than anything, you have to think in retrospect and see what the most prominent cause of your anger is.

or sing if you can....im sure you can overcome this problem, if you look at things from a more relaxed point of view.

 

I'd try to just call her sometime or get her at a place where you two can talk it out and see what's bothering her. Do you recall doing anything that might have made her angry such as getting mad at someone else or anything? In the end, the best option is to be up front and see if you can get her to explain it to her by asking direct.

I would suggest perhaps some alone time to do things you like to do and maybe taking walks or something that gets you out of the house a bit. Listening to music and singing along to it can help as well to relieve some tension. Perhaps doing some form of exercise too so that the aggressive energy leaves you easier. If you are really frustrated, punch your pillow a few times as hard as you can. It won't hurt anything.

Also, try thinking on why you happen to be angry. Even with the teenage normal hormones, there's usually something there that is setting you off and if you can see it, you can learn to have more tolerance for it. I hope you feel better soon.

 

Well she did say that im incredibly annoying and told me not to say that she was my friend.

 

Hey!

You're annoying? How could a person think like that?!?!? Do you talk to much or something?

 

Yeah, i do.

But i still consider her my friend.