Help with Life

Discussion in 'The Spam Zone' started by Shadow, Apr 30, 2007.

Thread Status:
Not open for further replies.
  1. Cia (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*.✧*.✧

    Joined:
    Mar 16, 2007
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Hollow Bastion
    178
    Yeah, exactly.

    Well, I think your best bet is to just ignore him. If he tries to knock your stuff down again, say you spit on it or something. Or inconspicuously watch him and and if he looks like he's going to do it again, then make sure your stuff is away from knocking-down path. Under your desk works...
     
  2. Nanaki Broken in six places

    Joined:
    Dec 18, 2006
    Location:
    At a computer desk.
    45
    Alrighty you guys. Thanks. And...uck. Why can't people just leave me alone? They ALL HATE me...they just love to see me get mad, too. Meh, I have a worse problem then that, but...I'm not even going there....
     
  3. Cia (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*.✧*.✧

    Joined:
    Mar 16, 2007
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Hollow Bastion
    178
    Yeah, that's it, right there. Just don't react. When you react, you encourage them. Maintain a straight face.
     
  4. Spitfire I'm a little high, and a little drunk.

    Joined:
    Mar 19, 2007
    Location:
    On the Block wit my Thang Cocked
    80
    Yea shes right, when people freak out, society feels it to be funny, that is why reality TV is so popular. If they know that you dont care, then good chance that they will stop. It will just take time to realize that it doesn't affect you anymore, it took 6 years for people to realize that I didn't care how short I was. So give it time.
     
  5. Cia (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*.✧*.✧

    Joined:
    Mar 16, 2007
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Hollow Bastion
    178
    There there, xroadtothedawnx, we all know about your AIM screen name. It's not bad to feel short. :p

    ... of course I wouldn't know... I stand at a solid six feet. XD

    *runs away*
     
  6. Spitfire I'm a little high, and a little drunk.

    Joined:
    Mar 19, 2007
    Location:
    On the Block wit my Thang Cocked
    80
    Dang giant...and hey I thought my AIM screen name was creative for thing it up on the spot. But really it takes tiem but people learn to realize that it doesn't bug you anymore.
     
  7. Cia (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*.✧*.✧

    Joined:
    Mar 16, 2007
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Hollow Bastion
    178
    Yeah, just like it doesn't bug me that people say I'm a giant... or that I should become a model or a superstar... (ok, that one I'm not quite over yet) -_-'
     
  8. Spitfire I'm a little high, and a little drunk.

    Joined:
    Mar 19, 2007
    Location:
    On the Block wit my Thang Cocked
    80
    Take it as a compliment I have never been told I could be a model or a superstar, and I am slightly offended by it.
     
  9. Cia (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*.✧*.✧

    Joined:
    Mar 16, 2007
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Hollow Bastion
    178
    >[... yeah but they only say that because of my height...or so I think so... o0
     
  10. Roxas- PARTYMAN MORE LIKE HOMOVAN 73M SUCK MY B****!

    16
    950
    I'll start my list.

    People on this site are angry at me.
    I have no friends.
    I get beaten up on the street.
    My parents are divorcing.(Almost)
    and I have very low self esteem.
    Help?
     
  11. Cia (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*.✧*.✧

    Joined:
    Mar 16, 2007
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Hollow Bastion
    178
    Why are people angry at you?

    Are you sure you have no friends? In that case, you just made one. :3

    Take a different route home. Try to confront why they feel the need to cause physical harm to you. Tell your parents about this if you haven't already, if they can't do anything then tell an adult at school. Preferably, your guidance councelor.

    Your parents separating is not your fault.

    and your self esteem? What don't you like about yourself?
     
  12. kitty_mckechnie I want to hug you like big fuzzy Siberian bear!

    Joined:
    Feb 6, 2007
    2,230
    Hey it's not your falut that you couldn't make it & if people are still angry at you they outta be ashamed of themselves.
    You got friends here. *points at self*
     
  13. Cia (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*.✧*.✧

    Joined:
    Mar 16, 2007
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Hollow Bastion
    178
    ... I don't know what happend, sounds like you didn't make a sig or something but...

    Indeed, I'm here and so is k_m, lol. :) No worries.
     
  14. Spitfire I'm a little high, and a little drunk.

    Joined:
    Mar 19, 2007
    Location:
    On the Block wit my Thang Cocked
    80
    Welcome to my life, I really don't know how to start, because I think I have learned to ignore it a lot. As for you getting beat up on the street, the only thing you can do is take a new way home, or find someone to walk with. I know that you are not one of a kind at school, so you just have to look for the right person to hang out with, I moved schools 5 times so I never had the same friends very long, but when you find some people that are into the same things its good. Just start poking your head around, you'll find some, plus you have everyone here. My parents were are separate as well, and that is hard really hard, I have 2 sets of families, with 2 sets of rules, with 2 set of activities. But that is something that you will discover that it isn't as bad really, as long as you stay in contact, I try to see my dad once a week and If i can't then I call and talk, just don't let communication down. As for the low self esteem, find something your good at, it helps, and you can't dwell on bad things it will only bring you lower, and that is a path you don't want to take, it really sucks and it set me back a long way. Just look to a bet future, nothing is unbearable, I really hope this helps, I am happy with my life and I have gone through everything you are, really just have to stay positive.
     
  15. Crispers Beep Boop

    Joined:
    Mar 29, 2007
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Ontario,Canada
    25
    my parents r separated
    it happened when i was like 4
    and u have friends here :)
    and my life isnt the best either ._.
    but my friends help me to live though it
     
  16. Sanda Kingdom Keeper

    Joined:
    Mar 29, 2007
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    USA
    86
    755
    God, what the hell is up with divorce? [Sorry its just AHHHH] People take life for granted :\

    Sorry youre goin through all this!!! Im in your totally awesome fourm family *gives hugs & love* -btw we gotta recruit pplz and start:p

    Beaten up on the street? :{ I cant imagine living like that, Im so sorry! Is there anyway you can get around it? What exactly happens?

    No friends-not even one? Surely youve got someone out there:o

    "and my life isnt the best either ._.
    but my friends help me to live though it"
    Thats a really good attitude to take. I always think someone somewhere has it worse than me. Works like a charm-
     
  17. Roxas- PARTYMAN MORE LIKE HOMOVAN 73M SUCK MY B****!

    16
    950
    I cant take different routes home without cutting through peoples yards, and I''m on bike.
     
  18. Sanda Kingdom Keeper

    Joined:
    Mar 29, 2007
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    USA
    86
    755
    Are they on bikes as well:eek: ?

    Have you told anyone about it? :{
     
  19. Roxas- PARTYMAN MORE LIKE HOMOVAN 73M SUCK MY B****!

    16
    950
    well, they're not on bike. Sometimes I ride home, and once, Jackson(******) jumped at me, and I landed on a rock. ow.
     
  20. Sanda Kingdom Keeper

    Joined:
    Mar 29, 2007
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    USA
    86
    755
    D:! Im sorry :{

    Those people sound really low, I mean the 'element of surprise'? Common thats a bit immature to say the least-

    I guess youre safest on your bike:o
     
Thread Status:
Not open for further replies.