Help with Life

I don't remember much about the love xD I don't remember much team love for me.Idk if it'll take time to get over it or what..

 

Well, I'm sure that your team didn't hate you after you struck out, did they?

 

Possibly,I don't remember anyone saying anything.

 

I'm sure if anyone said anything hateful, you'd remember it.I'm sure that they didn't blame you for losing the game. You were under a lot of pressure, and I'm sure a lot of other people would have felt the same way. Maybe it will take time, but just remember that it was only a game, and you tried your best. That's all you can ever really do.

 

..I'd like to agree and move on..but I just don't feel that I can do that so easily..I need time.

 

well, its actually ok.


because the only reason , youre remembering your failure is because YOU want to.

its a thing of the mind, you need to get over it and move on.

try to stop feeling bad, it was a team game.

and it wasnt your fault.

instead of putting so much weight over your shoulders about it, think about how, other people have messed up worst, and messed others up, and still get over it.

 

Some things do take a long time to get over. But sometimes it's because you're holding on for some reason. You should try and let go. Find out way that memory still haunts you so badly. Then you can really get over it.

 

-_-..I don't want to remember..everytime I think of baseball I remember the games I played when I was a kid..not my fault..but good try helping me..

 

heyy everyone,
i think i have a bit of a problem. well, more like a small problem blown up and worse then it was 11 months ago.
i'm basically 100% sure i have an eating disorder. i've been put into counseling a few times and they even told me i suffer from an eating disorder, and it didn't help much, just made me think about it more. i'm "bulimic", sometimes a bit of anorexia comes in, and i hadn't thrown up for 2 months. i was doing fine until a few days ago, and i feel like i'm back where i started. the feeling is always there, and i dont know what i should do anymore. :S
..anyone have any suggestions ?

 

Well, what do you think is the source of all this? Do you feel uncomfortable with your body or are there issues at home or with friends that's causing you to do this or what?

 

Is there something apart from possibly the way you look that's making you vomit?
Whether there is or isn't, I'd tell somebody about it before things go to far and you end up in the hospital.
That's just my opinion, I don't know what it's like so the advice I gave you is all the advice I can give.

 

i mostly feel uncomfortable with my body. i'd say i've dropped about 15 pounds over the school year and i've been told im "too skinny" by alot of people. but i beg to differ. issues at home or with friends? well, with my friends its almost like they're too self-centered to notice or care about anything going on in my life, and my parents, well thats a different story. :\

i'm honestly not too sure, it might be my dads alcohol problem, or i might just have a disorder. i can say though that i'm finally seeing the disorder now after almost a year; when i vomit it makes me feel better than i usually do, and it kind of scares me. i've told my parents and 2 friends, but i haven't told them i started again. i was actually not thinking about it as much and i was eating normal and everything, i was quite content. then we went away for awhile and i ate a couple things i dont normally eat. and it completely threw me off balance, i feel like i'm at the start again.

 

Well, most of my old friends turned against me for some reason, and now they don't really talk to me anymore.

Should I ignore them, or should I try to make friends again?(Or something like that.)

I really don't know what to do. I have a lot of good friends, but some just seemed to target me as a victim and then they just say stuff behind my back. :l. It kinda hurts to see that your good friends just get suspicious about you and then they end up not talking to you. And this is all because of one person that I know IRL. He created one of the worst days of my life. :(

 

This is tough. Apparently, the bulimia/anorexia is because of all these other problems. And you don't need me to tell you that. Your friends say that you are "too skinny" and you don't think so. That right there is the main problem. Okay, I'm not to sure what to say now... I need so time to sit and think about this. You can always PM me if you need help and I'll try my best to help you out with this.

 

alright, thanks alot <3
ok, take your time, and its alright if you cant think of anything, i think i'm doing alright for a bit.
alrightyy, i'll pm you if i need some help, thank you soo much. :)

 

Well I'm not sure how long it will last but my neighbor is a total *******, and has been for the last thirty-five years (since my mom was a kid.) So anyways, I have 2 large dogs (Akira and Nina) andmy neighbor (Mike) says they have been barking nonstop lately. It started when my parents got back from vacation. They didn't think he was lying so they thought they owed our neighbors an apology. When they asked everyone, none of them said that our dogs were being a nuisince. Mike has several times called animal control on us and not once did animal control say they were a nuisince. He has also several times told us to put shock collars on our dogs, however in our area there are a lot of break-ins and that's half the reason we have big dogs. We want them to bark if someone's breaking in and not be afraid to because it'll hurt. So not to long ago my older brother was sitting on the deck and he saw a new birdhouse that Mike put up and saw a flashing light on it. When my mom went over and asked what it was about his exact words were: "You didn't put a shock collar on your dog so I did for you." Because apparently this device that is in that birdhouse sends out a wave that hurts any animal within 150 feet's ears (using ultra-sonic soundwaves) whenever it hears a loud sound. It doesn't nesscesarily have to be barking. And we live near an airport so the airplanes set it off too. And it can be set off by any loud sound. Besides him, everybody in our neighborhood has animals. In fact, on the other side of Mike there is a dog named Rudy who has seizures. His owners go to great lengths to keep him calm. So we have been getting signatures for a petition and are getting legal documents from our local vet. And if he still refuses to take it down we are allowed to civally sue him. We only hope that he will take it down when he realizes this is an inconvienince to us, the neighborhood, and all the people who walk their dogs around here.

 

So what is the question right now?

 

I don't know if he'll take it down. Even if it comes to sueing him, there's no gaurentee he won't put up another one. Me and my friends were gonna try and do something about it but we don't know if it would be a good idea let alone legal.

 

Hm. Well like get him off the landmark then. That'll help a little.

 

I suppose. Thanks anyway. But what I really need to do is get his phone number. I have a plan if I can get it.