Help with Life

That is just messed up. I don't even know what to say. She has obviously suffered brain damage or something. But you know what I do? Whenever someone does something like that, Just look at 'em reral nice and just give 'em a nice smile. It pisses 'em off and it'll show them that they can't intimidate you. Good luck on your quest and happy days to all fellow good doers, Advice man, AWAY!!!!!

 

usually i don't let her get to me, but i was really pissed the first day... I was shaking and i was getting ready to punch the wall and i was like.
"I'm not punching a wall, i'm punching a pillow back in the room" and the coach said
"never hit the wall because it will always win"

i proved that wrong a few years ago punching a hole in the wall at my old house <>

 

I know how you feel trust me. Just whatever you do don't let her make you angry if you do it makes you vulnerable for attack with other bullies. It makes people want to get to you and hurt you. And sorry if this makes me sound like a hippie but it lets in a lot of bad vibes and negative energy which you just can't have. Your positive energy acts as a forcefield which keeps the bad stuff out. But every time you get angry even if it's just for a second that barrier is put down and bad vibes get in. Just chill. I'm not saying become an alchoholic or a drug addict but do something to take your mind off it. Chew gum, take up tai chi or martial arts, learn an instrument, whatever you have to do. But don't let your personal barrier get let down for even a second. Oh and no more wall punching 0_0

 

Yeah, like xcatisx said, if you just stay happy and uncaring, she'll realize she's not getting to you. And if she gets so mad because you're not responding to resort to something as stupid as violence, heh-heh trust me, she won't be at that camp much longer.

 

the camp is over now

when she told me to shut up though i seriously said

"Bitch tells me to shut up again, i'll kick her ass 0.o"

 

Well at least it's over then huh? My advice holds true though. Basically: don't worry, be happy :D

 

but what is your advice if i happen to get in a fight with her? o_O
seriously, I'll break her face in

 

Stay happy and ignorant and lead her to a place where authority can see hat she's trying to do, or if she doesn't chase after you than just walk away, all that'll happen is her getting madder, and who cares about her?

 

Exactly. Don't let her pound your face in but don't fight back. If it absolutely comes to it and there's nothing else you can do, at least fight honorabley and calmley. But I don't suggest fighting at all. Just follow what Vex said.

 

o_O
i would LAUGH the day i see her try to fight... She's a spoiled brat who gets anything she wants and if she doesn't want to work to get a ball, what makes her want to fight off someone my size?

 

Hehe and that my friend is called karma. Sweet, sweet karma. :laughing-smiley-004

 

well, actually, when i played volleyball

i got yelled at a lot, because in the games i got nervous and all, but i still play good.

i mean, if i wasnt moving, and not doing anything, i would be sure to get yelled at, but cupkake dont sweat it.

its just a game, i try my best , and have some fun, and i dont get one thing, why was the girl telling you not to set it, i mean, isnt that part of the game itself.

you need to set it, unless the other players are incompetent, in that case i mostly pass it to the other side.

 

I hate people like that.Sorry i haven't responded earlier Cupcake.Telling her off won't work,telling someone won't work so all you do is to just black her out.Tell the rest of the team and just block her out until she learns how to show repect for other peoples feelings and opinions.I know you think it's harsh but it works.I did it to my older adopted cousin who got a great laugh out of messing with me even if i didn't like it and i just blocked him out completely except if i pushed him out of my way in a hall then he got the message that if you play with lightning your going to get scorched.

 

Sorry guys the thing cuasing this you can't help with.

I'm ready to f*cking explode and people will get hurt if I can't get a hold of this temper...and I don't mean to be emo.

 

Ok,hope you all can help me out with this.Laugh if you want to,but don't disrespect me by doing in here.

I can't remember by exact age and grade.But a long time ago I was in a Little League baseball game.The scores were tied,the bases were loaded,and I was up to bat.

I pleaded with the coach NOT to let me go up there,because im **** when it comes to hitting with so much pressure on me.He wouldn't have it,so I went up to bat.

and its 1

2

3 strikes I'm out in the old.ball.game.I caused my team to lose,we were losing in the beginning,but the comeback was a miracle from god.I just couldn't hit that damn ball.

And every time someone says anything about Baseball,or I see it anywhere like in a move,I remember that and get depressed knowing I let my team down.

 

I understand why maybe you would feel guilty, but it's probably time to forget about it. It was only a game, and I'm sure that it wasn't that big of a deal. Isn't it really about the love of the game anyway?

But if you REALLY feel like you need to redeem yourself, then maybe try helping out a baseball team somewhere and making some new, better memories.

I'm sorry if that wasn't too helpful, but that's all I could think of.

 

It's hard moving on..I mean,because I messed up,my team didn't win..and it was because of them that we tied after losing so bad.I had low-self esteem before,and this didn't help me at all.

the Umpire was a dumb ***** though,that pitcher threw 'balls'..

 

But everyone messes up at some point in their life. It'd be weird if they didn't. Think of it this way: You may have been the last person, but would you have felt the same way if you didn't get the last out? What if you only got the second out? Other people could have won the game for your team too, but they messed up. Nobody can be perfect or good whenever they want to be. You can't blame yourself.

 

It's fine if I mess it up for myself,but not for people who are my TEAM.You wouldn't understand it,I don't think so at least.

 

I understand why it isn't such a big deal to let yourself down but not other people. That's how it is for most people (at least I think so). But teammates are supposed to be your friends, right? Surely they understood the pressure and they still loved you.