Help with Life

Seeing as I'm not a girl (as far as I know @.@) I can't really help with your problem all that much.

Anyhoo...

There are three possible courses of action you could take:
1. Just ignore it, and wait for him to get bored and stop bugging you. Ain't sure if that would work though.
2. Change your email, phone number and get a new youtube account etc.
3. Be firm, stand your ground and tell him to back off.

 

Wow. Must be hard.

1. He keeps messaging him and caling her(I think) and more
2. She just explained why she can't
3. I don't think she can do it.

 

Ok, sorry, I mustn't have read all of it. Sorry I can't be of more assistance.

 

but those were good tries there. Keep those for future uses and find some more!

 

Firstly, I smiled at the girl joke. Thank you for that.

There are three possible courses of action you could take:
1. Just ignore it, and wait for him to get bored and stop bugging you. Ain't sure if that would work though.
I've finally stopped replying. He's just writing stuff. But he's going to keep doin' it...
2. Change your email, phone number and get a new youtube account etc.
Horrid thought, actually. All of that stuff...All of the uploading and saving and copying and work that would have to be redone...
3. Be firm, stand your ground and tell him to back off.And yes, Xephos I'm not the 'firm' type, naturally. My firm ends up leaking out to look like whining and he'd probably just "lol". (He tends to 'lol' in the least appropriate of places.)

 

yea I noticed that. Hmmmmm. Do you know him by face?

 

Unless he's completely freakin' insane, he won't keep bugging you forever (I think), if you don't reply or talk to him at all. He's probably trying to provoke some sort of reaction; if you don't react, he will eventually get sick of it, I think. How long has it been going on for?

 

Not anymore.
I moved.

 

Oh. I see. Hmmmmm. Is it possible to do a webcam chat with him?

 

I hope he's not insane. I dont need a stalker...

He just started talking to me again today.

We could, but why?

 

My dad would take away my electronics for a month, and that's all I have to do in this freaking basement.

 

THAT SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Many things suck, but we just hyave to live through it, now donh't we?

 

......................................yea.

 

ok I have a bit of somehthin that even though I don't particualrly need help with (as in I kinda need to solve this myself if I'm to get anywhere) but I want your thoughts on it

i've always been a very scientific person and always suceeded at school, I never get below a B most of the time (and if I get a B its normally because I know the stuff and I don't give a crap about it and don't try) but I think this has given me a bit of a split mind

even though I am very logical and scientific for some reason my mind never wants to accept anything

if I think for example that (this is gonna be corny but) if love is real than why is it un-predictable. but then I think "of course its un-predictable its a emotion" but then I think "than why are emotions able to be controled through meds" and again another side of me rebuddles "because thats outside stumuli and cannot be factored in" and then my other side will rebudle and it will go on and on and on

I seem to have one side of me that wants to believe in love and other un-scientific things. But another that if I can't prove something it won't accept it. this causes me to half-believe everything, I never know something without doubts. But I enjoy debates and this keeps me interested but theres a problem.

because I can look at things 360 degrees I begin to become consumed in thought and learn things only to have them disproven a second later it drives me mad! It keeps me from being ignorant, but it also keeps me at a almost constant un-balance. The only time I can feel un-divided is when i let one take over which always ends in me making idiotic assumtions and me getting mad at myself for being a sap, or me crying my eyes out depending on what side takes over.

I guess man-kind has always pondered the cosmos but for me thinking this much at 15 I thing isn't normal and is starting to take its toll

and as iceing on the cake because I am thinking like this all the time I have a un-contrallable hatred for ignorance those who live in bliss disgust me I see them as pigs that have to have others think for themselves and will never be anything but a slave to their ignorance. this makes me anti-social which has its own problems coupled with it

I'm able to control everything when I'm playing music or making art but when I have no inspiration I have more and more problems what are your thoughts on this

 

Don't worry! You're fifteen. I went through a similar thing when I was younger. I became extremely cynical and very negative. It's natural for teenagers to question everything, and it would be even more worrying if you weren't thinking about this kind of stuff. It is most definitely normal to think that much when you're fifteen. When I was fifteen all I did was think, pretty much.

Be grateful that you're an inquisitive, intelligent person.

 

okay , this is a nice list of problems

well DPwolf , i have the same problem lol

just try and hear their scolding, hold on, and try and tell them

"im sorry , i will try better, its just that ive been a little stressed over" or something like that, so you dont get on their bad side and can still leave room for them to see that youre not slacking, and are willing to do better.

xjayn:

your guy seems to be really stuck on you (did you put a spell on him lol)

well, i think you dont want anything with him, right?

then go ahead and talk strongly, no arguing, you place your point and thats all the conversation

example:

you:i will not allow you to make me feel guilty about anything, in fact, what we had is over, and i will go on without you
him:bla bla bla(guilt remorse)

at this point just answer him something like this:

you: im not gonna keep wasting time on this.

and then stop talking to him, even when he says anything else.

though i feel kinda bad for the guy, thats what he gets...ha!


and khmaniac:

as marluxia said, but just remember that like you , they are humans(more naive ) humans, and have to be with them, so just bear with them, and just praise them in their simpicity.


well , i hope that helps.

 

thank you and I do

but do you not think like this now because like I said I do enjoy this I think I almost enjoy being sad more than I do being happy its weird
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and It helps arigatou

 

umm, yes, ive been there, i actually dont understand it myself though

its weird...yeah i know.

 

Yeah, I have to be really strong. x_X; I feel kind of bad, but then I dont feel bad when he acts like such a jerk...